Enjoy the solitude of being alone? He met someone who opened his heart on Tan

Mondo Psychological Updated on 2024-02-06

Yang Hui's window period has been 3 years, and after the last relationship ended, he felt more and more that one person could eat, watch movies or even go to the hospital, so what else would two people do? Although a person is lonely, this loneliness is a kind of enjoyment for him.

To put it simply, Yang Hui is now in a state where it is difficult for others to enter his inner world. The longer this state lasts, the less likely it is to change or even get used to it. In his cognition, there is nothing wrong with this state of loneliness.

The pressure of urging marriage at home and the pattern of getting together with friends in pairs also made Yang Hui consider finding an intimate relationship between two people, but this desire was not strong. Fa Xiao, who knows everything about him, recommended social software Tantan to him, and Fa Xiao told him that you will meet a lot of young ladies on Tantan, and it is not for you to deliberately deal with objects, just meet some new friends, which is only good for you and has no harm.

In the dead of night, Yang Hui ** Tantan, filled in his personal information, and uploaded a real person's avatar. By swiping left and right, you can match friends, and the operation is very simple. On Tantan, Yang Hui knows Mengshu, in fact, Yang Hui can choose to slide right on Mengshu, just because Mengshu's avatar is a ** who is skating snowboarding, Yang Hui himself also likes to play snowboarding, and there are not many women who like to play snowboarding.

After the two became friends, they didn't have too in-depth communication with each other in the first chat, but just chatted about the content related to the board. Later, Yang Hui found that in addition to playing snowboard, he and Mengshu both like to watch suspense movies, the kind of movies that reveal suspense at the last moment.

On a weekend afternoon, after many chats, Yang Hui and Mengshu came out to play snowboarding together and had dinner together by the way. In the process of contact with Mengshu, Yang Hui felt the long-lost happiness, playing without any distractions, and Mengshu's cheerful personality was also something that Yang Hui had not been exposed to in recent years.

After meeting for the first time, Yang Hui basically got in touch with Meng Shu every weekend, either playing snowboarding together, or watching movies together, or reading books quietly in the bookstore for a while, which Yang Hui enjoyed very much. This relationship lasted for almost half a year, and when Meng Shu asked on Tantan, should you be my boyfriend, Yang Hui was stunned, and he didn't know how to reply for a while.

This piece of information on the detective was tantamount to thunder for Yang Hui, he remembered the bits and pieces of contact with Meng Shu, remembered the happiness of being with Meng Shu without burden, and the wall that closed his heart also had cracks. And the appearance of this message is to bring down that wall completely.

It's not me who is your boyfriend, but you who is my girlfriend, because confession has to be done by guys. Yang Hui replied on Tantan.

It is difficult for others to enter their own hearts, but they can enter the hearts of others. For Yang Hui, Mengshu is the one who opens his heart.

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