Excerpt from Mr. Slash
Today I would like to ask you a question: If you divorce your current husband, or have already divorced, would you consider the possibility of remarriage? Please don't rush to answer. Let's take a look at the marriage story of the remarried couple who have been on the hot search and shocked the whole network. Perhaps, it will give you new inspiration.
The protagonists of the story are called Huang Jingbo and Ni Jinlei. These are two ordinary post-90s men and women living in Hebei. But the love story between them is as wonderful and twisty as a romance. They met in each other's youth and were each other's first love. Perhaps because their families are not good and they have suffered a lot, the two have a lot of common language and are sincere. But heaven does not grant people's wishes. Not long after, Huang Jingbo went to another country with his mother. The two have since cut off contact. The feelings of youth are like the evening breeze in summer, comfortable but short-lived, lost but missed. The name that was once the most familiar was hidden in the lowest part of the heart, and even the person concerned was afraid that it was difficult to detect. However, as the saying goes, "if you don't forget, there will be an echo". People whose fate is not over always have the opportunity to meet again. One day five years later, Huang Jingbo returned to his hometown in Hebei and accidentally reconnected with Ni Jinlei on WeChat. On that day, they added friends to each other; The next day, we met and had dinner together, and the old love was rekindled; On the third day, it was decided to get married. Maybe it's the surprise of a long-lost reunion that defeats reason, or maybe it's the love that gets carried away. At that time, Huang Jingbo was full of one thought: "I want to have a home with him!" Parents on both sides also don't have the idea of beating mandarin ducks. So, one day in August 2013, they officially received their marriage certificate and became a legal husband and wife. If the story ends here, I'm afraid many people will applaud and sigh that the romance drama has come to reality. But in fact, the story behind it is far from beautiful. Life is far more cruel than any drama. Not long after getting married, Huang Jingbo clearly realized a truth: her expectations for this marriage were too high. Not to mention the trivial daily life of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea after marriage, it is far from being beautiful and romantic. Her decision to get married to her husband in a flash also made both of them suffer a lot. Because they have never really run in and lived together in the past, it was only after marriage that the couple really realized that many of each other's views were either completely different or collided with each other. Contradictions accumulate day by day, and the once fiery feelings are quickly cooled down like a basin of cold water. Especially after giving birth to a child, the relationship problems between the two have become more and more serious. Finally, in October 2019, the couple, who had been envied by countless people and achieved "from first love to marriage", chose to divorce. The two have since parted ways, the eldest daughter followed Huang Jingbo, and the younger son was raised by Ni Jinlei, who became her ex-husband. Seeing this result, I am afraid that many people will feel familiar, after all, this is also the end of many couples at the moment. The distance from love to suspicion is actually far from being as far away as imagined. But what no one expected was that within a few years, the two would go round and round and get back together This has to start with the youngest son raised by her ex-husband. Not long after the divorce, they began to notice that their youngest son was showing some symptoms of autism, and it was getting worse. This diagnosis is tantamount to a bolt from the blue for Huang Jingbo and her ex-husband. She had secretly cried alone for a long time, and he also became emotionally unstable and inexplicably irritable. But life has to go on, and there is only one direction of the road, and there is no other way but to move forward bravely. Since then, her ex-husband has been working greedily every day to earn money for the child's medical treatment. Huang Jingbo also spends all his time taking his children to other hospitals**. Some people have also persuaded Huang Jingbo to leave directly, anyway, his son was raised by his ex-husband. But Huang Jingbo** can let go of the child, and **is willing to let the person he once loved pick up the burden alone?She chose to face the hardships of life with her ex-husband. Whenever they are on the verge of collapse, this former couple comforts me and I comfort you. After more than 3 years**, my son's condition finally improved. And the former husband and wife, who have been supporting each other during this time, have also re-acquainted themselves with each other and their feelings for each other through this experience.
Eventually, they chose to remarry.
The reason for Huang Jingbo's divorce from her husband is actually the same as that of many couples in reality. No matter how romantic and beautiful the love process is before marriage, all kinds of trivial things, personality frictions, and communication conflicts after marriage can easily kill love. Therefore, people often say that it is always easy to fall in love, but it is too difficult to get along. It seems romantic and beautiful to stay together, but it is actually a real test for a relationship. The high praise and evaluation of Huang Jingbo and his wife on the Internet are often similar in content. is appreciating that the couple did not fly separately when a catastrophe came, did not blame each other, but chose to support each other. They were able to love each other again, and they were also moved by the company of this low period. And isn't this what marriage is all about?When two people are together, of course, what they hope most is to be able to warm each other when it is cold, have someone to share when they are sad, and enjoy the scenery along the way together when they are moving forward. The vows that they once said together when they got married are nothing more than emphasizing four words: help each other in the same boat.