In the latest issue of "Wireless Transcendence Class", the actor introduced himself.
Tutor Zeng Zhiwei looked at his resume and asked Ji Lingchen: "Are you called 'Brother Dahai' because you swim?" “
As if dropping an "embarrassing bomb", the students in the lounge were eager to tear out their toenails and pull out the three-room living room: "All of us took a breath for him." "
Ji Lingchen hesitated again and again, and posted a Weibo when they broke up: "You like the sea, I loved you." Although I think it's very romantic, I have been ridiculed by netizens for many years.
At this time, Ji Lingchen looks so greasy and haggard than the big boy when he was on "Dear Inn" seven years ago, this is the legendary "There is no light in the eyes." “
It's just that there is a question that I have never figured out, why do you want to write words like "Brother Dahai" in your resume?
Well, maybe it's the foreshadowing that the author lays to pave the way for the homesickness described later in the article? Well, that's right, it must be so.
Getting back to the point, many people say that he is a complete scumbag.
I don't think Ji Lingchen may be so scummy.
First of all, why do I think Ji Lingchen is not so thorough as a man.
First, he didn't "delay" her that long
It is said that Kan Qingzi wasted eight years of his youth to accompany him, how many eight years of life are there.
But after careful calculation, it has only been more than two years since Ling Chen officially announced that they were together on November 30, 2015 to July 31, 2018, when they officially announced their breakup.
It's normal to fall in love and break up in two or three years.
Second, it is understandable that he does not want to get married so early
Ji Lingchen was born in 1993, and he was only 22 years old when he was with Kan Qingzi in 2015, which is exactly the age of a college student, even when he appeared in the variety show "Dear Inn" in 2017, he was only 25 years old.
25 years old, just graduated for only two years, the foundation is not stable, and when the income is not high, he even has to ask his parents for money with a face.
At the age of 25, dare to ask everyone here, who really put "marriage" on the agenda?
Therefore, when Liu Tao and his wife instigated him to propose, his face was full of hesitation and refusal, and I believe that at that moment, he followed his heart.
I even felt that a breakup was the best outcome for them.
1. "Can love last a lifetime?" “
In "Dear Inn", Yang Zi asked Kan Qingzi:"Do you feel like you love him? ”
Kan Qingzi replied: "Can love last a lifetime?" You have to think about life! ”
Let's believe that there is love between them for the time being, at least, Kan Qingzi has.
However, the love that Kan Qingzi wants is mutual support for a long time;
Ji Lingchen's love is passion, happiness, freedom, and living in the moment;
This is why we often see Kan Qingzi sulking and shedding tears because of Ji Lingchen's immaturity, which is hatred of iron and steel.
And although Ji Lingchen didn't understand why, and wasn't even interested in the reason why she was angry, she was right to coax, as long as she coaxed it, she would complete the task.
Kan Qingzi once said.
I think the two are more like two cars at the same speed, driving at a constant speed.
One was unwilling to stop and wait for him.
The other was also reluctant to increase his horsepower to chase her.
The mismatch in maturity levels has created a gap between them that is difficult to close.
IILack of love skills
In "Dear Inn", the couple always tear each other down without giving face.
It seems that the little couple is playing tricks, but in fact, it doesn't hurt anyone, everyone knows it.
Both of them lack love skills --- boast
In "Housework Honor Student", Xiao Li Lin used this trick to take her husband to death.
A friend came to the house for dinner and praised Jingchao and said, "It turned out to be a cook." ”
Xiao Li Lin hurriedly picked up the words: "Some time ago, I thought he was a gardener, and he was a dad for a while, and in a few days he joined the group to film, and it turned out to be an actor." ”
A fierce compliment made the husband, who was busy cooking, listen to it beautifully, and the cooking momentum became even stronger.
also often shows weakness to Jing Chao, who is six years younger, and gives her husband enough family status.
And Jing Chao also admitted in the interview that he enjoyed the time of "eating soft rice" when he was in love.
is also a sister and brother love, after being super mature and indifferent, Xiao Li Lin gave positive feedback, which may be the secret of their happy marriage.
Maybe,In love, mentality is the most important thing.