Jackie Chan welcomes the New Year
Today's parents, who have experienced the era of poor resources, have encountered the helplessness of first-come, first-served, and have imagined the embarrassment and hardship of having no money to stump the heroes.
To foresee the unknown is to predict the future.
There are many uncertainties in the future, and the greatest certainty is change. It's just that there's no need to infinitely magnify the uncertainty of the future.
Parents, when cattle are horses and try their best to make money, even if they earn gold and silver, they will leave it to their children smoothly, but there will always be a time to sit and eat empty.
When I was a child, in the countryside, the elders of the village always told a story to the children: Once upon a time, there was a couple with only one boy in the family, and the two of them doted on the boy very much, and as long as the little boy wanted to think about it, the two of them would definitely satisfy him. In the brains of the countrymen at that time, the best scenario for children was to have food and clothing, and it was the best day in the world.
One day, the two of them were going to go far away, and they were very worried about the life of the little boy, so they racked their brains, first let the child eat and drink, and then made a round cake for the child, dug out a hole in the middle of the cake, put the big cake around the little boy's neck, before going out, they told the child to open his mouth to eat when he was hungry, and the parents would come back in a few days.
The two of them went out to run errands, and they were very tight on time, and they hurried home after the matter was clear.
When they arrived home, they were shocked by the fact that their beloved child had already died.
And the flatbread ate only a small piece that the little boy could reach in front of him.
He didn't even want to turn his head, even if he was extremely hungry.
I don't know if it's unwilling, won't, don't dare, or disdain? Maybe both.
The big cake on this child's neck, from the perspective of survival, is not better than gold and silver.
If the child is unwilling, unwilling, afraid or even disdainful, it means that the child's understanding of this world is biased, and it is different from everyone's thinking.
He is reluctant to turn his head to eat, thinking that it doesn't mean much to live, and he will never compromise if he refuses to do so; He didn't dare to turn his head, he had developed the habit of stretching out his hand to open his mouth to eat, and he lacked skills and courage, so he couldn't adapt to the unfamiliar and fresh environment; Disdainful of him, he looked down on his behavior of turning his head, and felt that this was a lowly and inferior job, and it was not worth doing for himself.
No matter how much grain there is in the granary, it also has a shelf life for storage; Dried fish also have an expiration date. This may be the reason why parents want to give their children mountains of gold and silver.
It's just that there is also the possibility of depreciation of Jinshan Yinshan, and there is also the possibility of an ignorance.
Even if the gold and silver mountains have always been strong hard currency.
How can a person with mediocre ability and qualifications gain a foothold in society? How do you keep this wealth? Will it become a gentleman who does not learn and has no skills?
Adou's father not only left him Ji Han, but also left his father Zhuge Kongming and a group of Wenchen generals, but after Kong Ming died, Adou still gave away the foundation and surrendered to be a happy An Le Gong.
And in history, many children of rich people, people who won the jackpot, perfected huge amounts of property, some lived a rotten life, some became losers, and some died early, which makes people sigh and sigh.
Whether the younger generations can be happy or not has little to do with whether they are rich or not.
The Chinese New Year is coming, and parents who have no money don't need to be too anxious and don't have to worry endlessly about the future.
The future of children needs to be explored and created by themselves.
We can provide them with a good education and growth environment, and cultivate their abilities and qualities, but this does not mean that we can experience life and face challenges for them.