In the world of love, there is always one kind of person who is unfair, and there is always one kind of person who is favored.
It has been said that love is like a scale, it is always unbalanced, and it will put one of the partners in a high position and the other party in a low position.
Love is not for you and me, it can last forever. ”
In love, the person who truly loves you will always make you feel loved and loved.
Many times, we always feel that love is fair. But in fact, love is never fair.
In love, we tend to overlook a very important question:
Where do we really stand in love?
It has been said that in love, the best love is to attract each other, not to give to each other. Because in love, if one person's giving is directly proportional to the other's taking, then the relationship will be tiring.
In real life, there are indeed many such examples. There is a couple who have been married for many years, and the husband still comes home after work every day with his mobile phone. And the wife always comes home after being busy with housework, and there is almost no communication between her and her husband.
The husband comes home from work every day with his mobile phone playing games, while the wife is also busy with work and family every day. Over time, there were also problems with the relationship between the two people.
There used to be a saying: "Love is not a competition, but a kind of mutual support growth." ”
In love, if you are too humble and always want the other person to revolve around you, then you are also destined to be snubbed and abandoned by the other party.
When you put yourself in a very low position, the other party will feel that you are not worthy of him, and even start to dislike you.
As time goes by, the relationship between two people will also fade.
If one party always puts himself in a very low position, then sooner or later such feelings will one day lead to tragedy.
However, we always want our love to be fair, so there will be a lot less sad and sad moments.
In fact, love is never balanced, and those who are favored tend to be happier.
Because in love, everyone has their place.
Those who are favored will always make you feel loved and loved; And those who are left out will make you feel more and more unfair.
The essence of love is a value exchange, if two people are not equal, then in this love, there will definitely be one party in a low position, and there will be one party in a high position.
Even if we give a lot in a relationship, don't put yourself in a humble position.
If you always try to prove that he loves you in various ways, then you are destined to be in a vulnerable position in this relationship.
What we should do is not to love Him in our own way.
The best state of love is "I love you, but I also have my own life".
Learn to let go so that each other can find their own happiness again.
A really good love must be able to do it without giving up on themselves or wronging themselves.
Good love is mutual attraction, mutual respect, mutual support, mutual growth, and mutual achievement.
When you find your own happiness in love, don't pester him anymore. Because you have found your own happiness, instead of living for love all the time.