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Hello everyone, I am a bookworm from Zhenshui Academy, and I am very happy to share with you the topic of choosing a wedding day. You are also welcome to share the customs of choosing a wedding day in your territory, and express your views and opinions on the choice of wedding date, so as to help and inspire more friends who like folk culture.
In traditional Chinese culture, marriage is regarded as a major event in life, so it is important to choose an auspicious wedding date. The choice of an auspicious wedding day is not only related to the harmony and happiness of the two families, but also is believed to have a profound impact on the auspiciousness of the couple's future life. The following is the process and precautions for choosing an auspicious day for marriage according to the traditional Chinese custom of choosing a date.
1. Understand the traditional principle of day selection
In China, the selection of an auspicious wedding day usually follows the following principles:
Zodiac auspicious day: According to the Chinese lunar calendar, choose the auspicious day marked on the imperial calendar.
Avoid the rush: Avoid choosing days that clash with the new couple's zodiac sign.
Eight-character marriage: Consider the birth date of both parties and choose the most suitable date.
2. Determine the basic information
Gather the necessary information:
Birth dates of both parties: When recording the date of birth of both parties.
Family customs: Learn about the traditional customs and preferences of both families.
3. Consult a professional
Since the selection of the day involves the complex coordination of the five elements of yin and yang and the eight characters of the zodiac, it is recommended to consult a professional numerologist or feng shui master. They will provide professional advice based on the couple's birthday and family traditions.
Due to the vast size of China, there are differences in marriage customs and the selection of wedding dates. For example, in some places, when getting married, special emphasis is placed on the compatibility of the numerology of men and women, and if there is a phenomenon of chongke, it is necessary to find an auspicious day for marriage suitable for double hair and resolve it.
There are also some places where when analyzing the numerology of both men and women, there is a great chance of breaking the sun or dividing the day of the people.
Fourth, consider practical factors
In addition to the traditional factors, the following practical factors need to be considered:
Opinions of both parents: Respect the suggestions and opinions of both parents.
Wedding venue reservations: Consider the dates available for your preferred wedding venue.
Guest Arrangements: Consider the travel and arrangements of your guests, especially important guests.
After taking the above factors into account, the couple and their families can discuss together to determine the final auspicious date for marriage. In this process, it is necessary to balance the requirements of traditional culture with the convenience of real life.
The selection of an auspicious day for marriage is an important part of traditional Chinese culture, which is not only the choice of day, but also the integration and respect of the family culture of both parties. In modern society, although many traditional customs have been simplified, it is still of great significance to the smooth holding of the wedding and the happy life of the couple in the future by reasonably combining tradition and modernity to select the most suitable auspicious day for marriage.
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