We have been talking about the fact that there are more men and fewer women, it is difficult for men to find daughters-in-law, and there are more and more men who are singles. However, what many people don't know is that there are not many fewer "female singles" than "male singles", and the number of "female singles" is still increasing.
Now the number of men in China far exceeds that of women, and it stands to reason that it is very simple for women to find a partner, but why are many people labeled as "older leftover women"? That's not a good word. Through communication with some women who are over 30 years old but not yet married, I also understand why they would rather be single than get married.
Economic independence brings more choice
In the past, in our traditional concept, women were dependent on men, and men were basically the biggest economy of a family. With the advent of the industrial era, groups of independent women emerged, gaining economic self-sufficiency, and women's choice in marriage also increased.
The development of urbanization has brought more possibilities to the majority of women, and more and more women have received a good education and broadened their horizons. Marriage is no longer a woman's goal in life, career and hobbies have become an important part of life, the bigger the city, the more inclusive, and the more older unmarried women.
Marriage is not child's play, and the fit of the three views is more important than anything else
Education brings not only material benefits, but also a baptism of thought, allowing you to have the ability to think independently. More and more well-educated women are beginning to wonder what exactly is the right marriage for them. Is it material affluence or spiritual fit?
They are not compromised on their marriage, and they will not get married until they find a partner who has the same three views. After all, marriage is not child's play, if you find the right person, every day is Valentine's Day; Find the wrong person, every day is Huashan sword.
Spiritual independence makes many single women have their own views on marriage, and they are more cautious in the choice of marriage.
Tools liberate productivity, but shrink personal social circles
Nowadays, a lot of work is done on computers, and the tools are getting more and more advanced, but everyone's social circle is getting smaller and smaller. If you have any questions, you can communicate online, but there are very few people you come into contact with in real life.
Many of my older female friends who are not married are like this, life and work are two points and one line, in addition to some colleagues in the company, many have other social circles, and there are only a handful of new friends I have met in the past year, how can I find a favorite object?
After all, if you haven't met so many people, it's hard for you to meet happiness that truly belongs to you. A good marriage requires both parties to have a deep understanding and contact, rather than just relying on a few words on the Internet to recognize how the person is and whether it is suitable or not. With such a small social circle, it is natural that you can't find a suitable partner.
Therefore, the increase in the phenomenon of "singleness" among modern women is not caused by a single reason, but is the result of multiple factors such as economic independence, education improvement, spiritual pursuit, and social circle changes. This not only reflects the progress of society and the improvement of women's status, but also reveals the challenges faced by modern people in terms of marriage outlook and social mode. How to balance personal pursuit and social needs, and how to find the person who fits with themselves in the vast modern society, has become a problem that modern people have to think about.
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