LikeWarren BuffettA message to my daughter:
Marry someone better than you, and don't look for someone who will only coax you. He can pour you water, buy you supper, and take care of you, these are not rare things.
What is really rare is his insight, his knowledge, his business vision, his adaptability, and his psychological quality. The best companion is your comrade-in-arms on the road of life, not a nanny.
Warren Buffett's words are like a sharp knife that goes straight to the heart of marriage. Coaxing you and taking care of you is important, but these are not the most important things in a marriage.
What is truly rare is a person's insight, knowledge, business vision and adaptability. These qualities are far superior to those who take care of themselves and talk sweetly.
The "comrade-in-arms" in marriage is the one who faces the ups and downs of life with you. He is not only a harbor for your soul, but also a beacon for you on the way forward. He fights side by side with you to overcome life's challenges.
And "nannies", although they can provide you with meticulous care, their world often only revolves around you, and they lack the willingness to grow and struggle with you.
Looking back on the long history, those great love stories all show the spirit of common struggle between partners. Whether it is the indomitable character in Romeo and Juliet or the harmony between Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu in Dream of Red Mansions, they all prove that true happiness is built on shared ideals and pursuits.
As Warren Buffett said, the best partner is your comrade-in-arms on the road of life, not a nanny. When we choose a partner, we should not only look for comfort and ease in front of us, but also look for someone who can grow with us and create a future together.
Be brave enough to find the one who can fight alongside us. He may not be perfect, but as long as he has a heart that is willing to make progress with you and face life together, he is the one who is worth entrusting for life.
In this long journey of life, may we all find the person who is willing to walk hand in hand with us and write our wonderful chapter together.