One day in 1995, when Sun Haiying was filming a movie in Xinjiang, the emergency at home made him unable to change his clothes and rushed to the hospital like crazy. From that moment on, a scar was carved into his life that would never heal. Sun Haiying, an outstanding actor, is also a good husband and stepfather who loves his family deeply. What kind of wind and rain has he experienced over the years?
Sun Haiying was born in a family of artists, her father Dingni was the director of the Liaoning People's Art Theater, and her mother was also a famous drama actress. When he was a child, he was often immersed in the charm of stage art and formed an indissoluble bond with the stage. However, when he expressed his love for acting to his father, he was hit. But his stubbornness drove him to keep trying, and he carefully observed each performance from the audience, and then practiced alone. With this perseverance, he has mastered the fundamentals of acting.
At the age of 17, Sun Haiying was admitted to the ** Military Region Repertory Troupe, and five years later, he retired from the army and transferred to the Fujian Military Region Repertory Troupe, and began to show his talent on a bigger stage. In his youth, he met his love. That pharmacist, let his life shine with new brilliance. The crystallization of their love was soon born, and the family and career were in full swing.
However, the trick of fate came quietly. One day during a rehearsal, Sun Haiying received his wife** and learned that his two-year-old son had accidentally fallen and suffered a severe head injury. The doctor's words were like a bolt from the blue: even if his life is saved, his son may become disabled. The couple fell into a deep silence, and the pain in their hearts was indescribable.
Although Sun Haiying did not blame his wife, the guilt in her heart almost overwhelmed her. However, life's challenges didn't bring them to their knees. For the sake of their son, they chose to face it bravely and supported each other through difficult days.
The years are like a song, and the fate is unfortunate. But Sun Haiying's firm belief and unremitting efforts have made the family more united and strong. No matter what ups and downs they go through, they always lean on each other and move forward. Under the baptism of time, they wrote a touching story full of love and courage together. The secret of faith and the pain of life.
On this night full of bitterness, Sun Haiying watched alone in the boundless torment. That heavy pain is an indelible shadow in his life. The once warm family is now pale from endless torture. There is no greater pain than this.
One morning, Sun Haiying woke up from her slumber to find a letter lying quietly on the table, which was the last words left by his wife. He held the letter in his hand, and his heart suddenly tightened, and a great sorrow welled up in his heart. The wife couldn't bear this inner guilt and chose to go to the unknown distance alone. Since then, Sun Haiying's world has become more lonely, taking on the burden of the family alone, and working and raising children have become all his life. Whenever he saw his son's painful and helpless eyes, he pinched himself deeply, trying to find a trace of strength in it.
In order to raise her son's medical expenses, Sun Haiying is no longer picky about her role. In 1989, he entered the Shenyang Repertory Theatre and began to make his mark in the theater industry with his outstanding performance in "Noisy Summer". 's superb acting skills have gradually attracted the attention of his predecessors in the industry, and invitations to film and television dramas have also followed. However, he kept a low profile and didn't really shine in the film and television industry until 1995.
Just when his career was at the beginning, life hit him hard again. During a shooting in Xinjiang, Sun Haiying received ** and learned that her son was seriously ill, and her heart was like a knife. He hurried home and watched his son convulses in pain and sleepless all night. But the ruthlessness of fate caused his son to die in torment, leaving Sun Haiying alone to face the pain of losing his loved ones. He engraved his son's name in his heart and decided to dedicate his life to his memory.
Immersed in grief, Sun Haiying chose to anesthetize herself with work. He devotes himself to each role with full emotion, and every performance is like a remembrance of the past years. In 1999, director Zhang Jizhong invited him to play "Ye Mengyou" in "Blue Enchantress", and he successfully interpreted this role and left a deep impression on the audience. "Tian Boguang" in "Smiling Proud Jianghu" shows the diversity of his acting skills.
In 2001, the role of "Shi Guangrong" in "The Years of Burning Passion" made Sun Haiying a household name. He vividly interpreted the tenacity and enthusiasm of the role, and became a classic image in the hearts of the audience.
Although life is hard, Sun Haiying always insists on moving forward. In grief and nostalgia, he lit up the stage of life with his acting skills, and also wrote an immortal chapter for his life. Sun Haiying and Shi Guangrong have many similarities, they are equally stubborn, brave in the face of difficulties, and have gone through ups and downs. It was this role that won him the 20th Audience Favorite Actor Award. However, this is not his only gain. This award allowed him to meet the love of his life - Lu Liping.
At that time, as the heroine partnered with Sun Haiying, Lu Liping did not have much affection for this stubborn actor. Her life was not going well, and at that time she was going through two failed marriages. Back in 1988, 28-year-old Lu Liping and Zhang Fengyi co-starred in the movie "Police Officer in the Year of the Dragon". Zhang Fengyi's handsomeness and masculinity deeply attracted Lu Liping, and Lu Liping's elegance also made Zhang Fengyi fall in love with it. The two quickly fall in love and decide to get married in a flash. There is no grand wedding, just a simple certification ceremony and a hand-in-hand commitment.
In 1989, Lu Liping gave birth to her son Zhang Boyu. She took care of her son wholeheartedly and even chose to put aside her career for a while. However, Zhang Fengyi is a very ambitious person, often busy with work and rarely takes care of his family. This lifestyle led to a gradual increase in the couple's quarrels. When Zhang Boyu was two years old, Zhang Fengyi decided to divorce Lu Liping. This divorce was not a peaceful breakup, and the two had a heated argument. In the end, the son was awarded to Lu Liping. In order to make a living, Lu Liping has taken on a number of film and television works, the most well-known of which is "The Story of the Editorial Department". For this, she won the Best Actress Award at the China TV Feitian Awards and won the title of "The First Top Ten Film and Television Stars in China". Despite losing her marriage, she has gained great recognition in her acting career.
During the filming of "The Years of Burning Passion", Lu Liping became interested in the actor Sun Haiying next to her. Sun Hae-young always seemed taciturn and a little out of place compared to the rest of the crew. As she got to know better, Lu Liping learned about his past and felt sympathy for him. In the life of the crew, the two gradually got closer, comforting and encouraging each other. Perhaps it was the same experience that resonated with them, and they started a new relationship. The two began to confide in each other and share their thoughts. After gradually closing the distance, they finally came to a crucial step. Lu Liping was always unsure of Sun Haiying's thoughts, so she plucked up the courage to take the initiative to ask Sun Haiying: "Will you mind my two marriages?"”。Sun Haiying smiled lightly after hearing this, and replied, "Don't I also have a history of marriage?"And just like that, they decided to come together.
As time passed, Sun Haiying gradually showed her love for her son Zhang Boyu. Lu Liping knew in her heart that Sun Haiying regarded it as her own, however, it was unknown whether her son Zhang Boyu would accept Sun Haiying. At first, Zhang Boyu had a cold attitude towards this stepfather, and he always habitually locked himself in his room. Despite this, Sun Haiying did not give up, and he worked hard to take on the responsibility of being a father.
Every time the school organizes parent-teacher meetings or parent-child activities, Sun Haiying actively participates. When the school needs to buy items, he always acts quickly. Sometimes Lu Liping would blame him for spending money arbitrarily, but he always smiled and said, "It's okay, the child needs it." In addition, when Zhang Boyu wants to go to the supermarket to buy snacks, Lu Liping will refuse, but Sun Haiying will secretly give Zhang Boyu money and remind him not to let Lu Liping see it.
Lu Liping always pays attention to the relationship between Sun Haiying and Zhang Boyu, worried that there will be problems between them. However, her concerns proved unfounded. Because Sun Haiying gradually regarded Zhang Boyu as his son, and tried his best to make up for his past regrets. Gradually, Zhang Boyu's resistance to Sun Haiying gradually decreased, and he would even take the initiative to ask, "Where is my Uncle Zhang?"”。Hearing this, Lu Liping's heart was full of emotion.
Although Zhang Boyu lacked his father's company when he was growing up, Sun Haiying's efforts made up for this shortcoming. When Zhang Boyu became rebellious and disobedient, Sun Haiying always appeared in time to give guidance and care. In this special family, love and understanding prevailed and brought them closer together. In the education of her stepson Zhang Boyu, Sun Haiying has always been strict and fair, and will not condone any mistakes. He is well aware of his responsibilities as a parent and sets a good example for Boyu by leading by example. Under his patient guidance and care, Zhang Boyu thrived and gradually formed his own ideals. He often asks Boyu: "Do you have any ideals?"And Boyu always answered him firmly, hoping that he could become an actor.
Seeing Bo Yu so persistent, Sun Haiying couldn't help but have some doubts, he was worried about whether Bo Yu's enthusiasm for acting came from the heart. However, he didn't know how much effort Bo Yu had put in silently behind the scenes. He repeatedly observed the works of Sun Haiying and Lu Liping, and deeply experienced the characters, and each time he felt as if he was in the middle of it, and it was difficult to extricate himself. His love and dedication touched Sun Haiying, and he decided to pass on his acting experience himself to help Boyu realize his dream.
The relationship between the two is getting closer and closer, and they talk about everything like friends. They perform the arts together, and sometimes even argue over different opinions. In the process, Boyu gradually changed his opinion of Sun Haiying, and he said gratefully: "Uncle Zhang is a knife-mouthed tofu-hearted person, and he has helped me a lot. ”
Although the restructured family faced many challenges and contradictions, Sun Haiying used his wisdom and tolerance to make the family live in harmony. Year after year, Boyu gradually loved Sun Haiying as his biological father.
However, what about the relationship with his biological father Zhang Fengyi?When Zhang Fengyi learned that his son was going to become an actor, he was furious!He sternly said to Boyu: "If you do this, then we won't contact you in the future." The outside world is confused about this, because Zhang Fengyi, as an actor, should understand and support his son's choice. But he explained: "He has a problem with his acting and his image is not good, unlike me who looks like a." "Every time I talk to my son, he always advises him to be admitted to college and not to think about being an actor.
As a stepfather, Sun Haiying carried the mountain. In 2002, when 13-year-old Zhang Boyu insisted on enrolling in his mother, Lu Liping's art school, Zhang Fengyi angrily ordered him to drop out. However, this time Boyu decided to fight his father to the end. The estrangement between Zhang Boyu and his biological father began to appear, which led to a lot of doubts about him. Some even harshly accused him of "confessing to the thief as his father." In this context, Sun Haiying did not mind, but chose to silently protect this stepson. As time passed, Boyu developed a deep affection for his stepfather, and even changed his title from "Uncle Zhang" to "Dad". Sun Haiying's heart is full of joy, but he knows that being a father has a great responsibility.
In 2014, Zhang Boyu and his girlfriend Zhang Moxi tied the knot. This was a grand wedding, and both Lu Liping and Zhang Boyu invited Zhang Fengyi to attend. However, Zhang Fengyi was opposed, believing that the wedding was too luxurious. Despite this, Sun Haiying, as a stepfather, showed a warm and kind image at the wedding and worked hard for the smooth running of the wedding.
Zhang Boyu has continued to make breakthroughs in his acting career, starring in "New Editorial Department Story" and "The Years of Burning Passion 2", showing good acting skills. This is inseparable from the encouragement and guidance of Sun Haiying and Lu Liping. In Zhang Boyu's heart, Sun Haiying has long been a competent father.
In his later years, Sun began to enjoy more leisure time, but his straightforward personality attracted him many enemies, including the famous director Feng Xiaogang. The two had a heated argument on the Internet. Despite this, Sun Haiying still sticks to her personality and principles. Sun Haiying did not adjust his personality and temper, and many people became him"Artillery fire"goals. However, due to the huge pressure, Sun Haiying's social account was banned in 2016, and he has only become relatively silent since then. For him, being able to enjoy a peaceful old age is a rare luxury. Those painful pasts are still engraved in his heart. Still, he is trying to reconcile with his past. Life is always full of twists and turns, and we all need to go through trials and tribulations to keep growing. Learning to take responsibility and let go is the only way for a person to transform. May we all do the same.