The discussion of women's sense of belonging after marriage has always been the focus of social controversy. Traditionally, married women are often seen as "the water of the daughter who has been married", implying that it is difficult to enjoy the sense of belonging in the mother's family.
However, the modern view is quite different, arguing that women should not lose their sense of belonging to their parents' family because of their marital status, and that they should be accepted and respected unconditionally.
Yesterday, a Jiangsu girl got married with humor, but just a few days ago, a woman in Henan Province wanted to return to her parents' home with her children to seek a safe haven after experiencing a failed marriage. However, instead of receiving the expected support, she was rejected and blamed by her mother.
Her mother's fear that her daughter's divorce would cause criticism and even affect her brother's marriage prospects has undoubtedly deepened her despair and helplessness.
Girls in families without brothers may not be able to experience the taste, my parents will not let us go home, after all, the living area of the family is very large, but the pain of being treated differently is indescribable, maybe people do not suffer from widowhood, but suffer from uneven psychology.
In ancient times, the general environment was like this, and there was nothing to worry about, but after twenty or thirty years of family planning, seeing the care of those only daughters, sometimes I really want to ask, why the policy is like this, and I still take a big risk, and I don't give up until I give birth to a son.
In the end, the cost of raising children increased, and it was still on the daughter's head, and my sister asked, "Why did you give me away and come back?" Because the family that raised her was unable to have children and had better economic conditions than mine, my mother said, "You are the meat that fell from me." ”
However, after coming back, everything good belongs to my son, anyway, we two sisters came out to work in our teens to support ourselves.