In family relationships, developing principles and rules to follow together can help reduce conflict and unnecessary "internal friction." Here are nine tips that may help promote a harmonious family:
1.*Effective Communication**: Make sure both parties can express their thoughts and feelings openly while listening to each other's positions and avoid misunderstandings and grievances.
2.*Equitable sharing of household chores**: Distribute family responsibilities and daily tasks reasonably according to their abilities and schedules to reduce dissatisfaction and disputes.
3.*Financial Transparency**: Manage your family's finances together to ensure transparency of your income and expenses, and avoid mistrust over money.
4.*Mutual Respect**: Give the other person the respect they deserve in all matters, including respecting each other's opinions, privacy, and personal space.
5.*Co-parenting**: Reach a common understanding on parenting concepts and methods, share the responsibility of educating your children, and avoid showing disagreements in front of your children.
6.*Regular Family Meetings**: Set up a regular time to discuss family matters, plans, and any issues that need to be addressed.
7.Conflict Resolution: Learn healthy conflict resolution skills, such as calming down before discussing issues, and avoiding making decisions in an angry mood.
8.*Support each other**: Provide support and encouragement when the other person is struggling or in need of help, and face life's challenges together.
9.*Maintain Romance**: Even in a long-term relationship, don't overlook the importance of maintaining intimacy and romance, and regularly schedule time in the world of two people to keep the relationship fresh.
These principles aim to build a stronger and more supportive family foundation, reduce unnecessary friction and increase understanding and cooperation between couples. Remember, every family is unique, and these recommendations need to be tailored to meet the family's actual needs.