On the stage of life, we often see two kinds of distressing characters: Ma Bao Nan and Fu Di Demon. Their actions and attitudes seem to have their own reasons and persistence, but in fact, there is a kind of sadness hidden behind them.
Ma Bao Nan, like a little boy with no independent thoughts, has always relied on his mother's care and protection. His personality development seems to be bound to the siege of maternal love, with no independent thinking ability and no independent control over life. His life seems to be a one-man show, his mother is the protagonist, and he is always a supporting role. Such a character seems to have the love of a mother, but in fact loses his independence and freedom.
The Brother-in-law Demon is a female character who is endlessly dedicated to her younger brother. They seem to have endless maternal love and are willing to give everything for their younger brother. However, this dedication is not out of true love, but out of a distorted sense of responsibility and dependence. Deep down, they may also crave the approval and respect of others, but they often act against their own hearts. Their lives seem to be stuck in a vicious circle, where the needs of their brother become all they have.
Both of these characters carry a kind of pathos. They seem to have a selfless love, but this love is distorted by their own psychological needs, and they are bound by their own personality and environment, and they cannot be freed. It's a painful bondage, a sad choice. We should not ignore the existence of this sorrow, nor should we trivialize their needs and feelings. We need to understand and respect their character development, and we need to provide support and guide them towards independence and freedom. Because only in this way can they truly get rid of their sorrow and move towards the light.