We all say that companionship is the most affectionate confession. Companionship is also the greatest love that parents give to their children. Some time ago, I read an article "Dad, if you don't accompany me anymore, I'll grow up!" It was like something hit on the chest.
This is a reason why many parents and friends do not have time to spend with their children due to the pressure of work or life. However, with the era of intelligence, mobile phones and computers are becoming more and more popular, and many parents spend more time playing with mobile phones even if they have time. The mobile phone seems to erect a ** wall between parents and children. It devours the fragmented time of parents after work, eroding the parent-child time that should be with their children.
Is it really companionship to take a child while playing with a mobile phone?
In the pilot of the third season of "Where Are You Going, Dad", the director put his father and child in a closed room, Liu Ye was playing with his mobile phone by himself, and his son Nuoyi suddenly said: "Dad, I had a dream, and Guanyin Bodhisattva asked me to talk to you." is a very childlike sentence, but it speaks of many children's inner desire for the company of their parents.
In the second season of "Mom is Superman", Bao Bell's wife Bao Wenjing was complained by everyone as a "giant baby mother". Daughter Dumpling was watching cartoons on the side, but she was playing with her mobile phone next to her without any interaction. She blew herself up:"The child is closer to the grandmother and the nanny. "That's inevitable, the child's heart is actually very simple, whoever is by his side and attentive to him will be close to whom.
Many parents may say: I look at my mobile phone because I have work to deal with, but the time occupied by my mobile phone after work is all about work. Things on? If they don't spend time with their children, they all grow up. Don't think that money can make up for this, what they crave is to be loved and noticed. The farthest distance between parents and children is that I am right next to you, but you are looking at your phone.
If you don't accompany me anymore, you'll grow up.
American psychologists have found that 20% of a person's achievements depend on acquired efforts and 80% on the teachings of his father. The same - a word of affirmation, spoken by a father, can have 50 times more influence on a child than a mother. - A word of affirmation, spoken by a father, can have 50 times more influence on a child than a mother.
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