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Will chatting with the opposite sex for a long time cause feelings? This is a question that we often encounter in our daily lives, and it is also a question that many people think about in interpersonal interactions. Today, we're going to take a look at this question.
Feelings between people are complex, and they are not only determined by our communication and contact, but also by a variety of factors such as our personality, experiences, values, etc. Therefore, we cannot simply assume that chatting with the opposite sex for a long time will inevitably lead to feelings.
From a psychological point of view, prolonged communication and contact do increase the affection between people. This is because, when we communicate with others, we share our thoughts, feelings, and experiences, which can make us feel understood and accepted, resulting in a sense of closeness. This sense of closeness is what we usually call "affection".
After chatting with the opposite sex for a long time, we may develop a deeper understanding of each other, which will also make us develop deeper feelings for each other. Because, knowing a person is the premise of liking a person.
However, this does not mean that if you chat with the opposite sex for a long time, you will definitely fall in love with each other. Because, love not only needs closeness, but also attraction. Whereas, attractiveness is determined by many factors, such as appearance, character, talents, etc. If these factors are not satisfied, then we may only develop friendship for each other instead of love.
If you chat with the opposite sex for a long time, you may have feelings, but this feeling may be friendship or love. What kind of relationship it will be depends on our own feelings and the situation of the other person.
How should we deal with this situation? First of all, we need to be clear about our feelings. If we have love for the other person, then we can try to express our feelings and see if the other person feels the same way. If we only have friendship with the other person, then we need to set some boundaries to avoid giving the other person the wrong signal.
Whether our relationship is friendship or love, we should respect each other's feelings and not force each other to accept our feelings. Because true feelings are based on the willingness of both parties.
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