What I have seen over time is really true.
I have been married to my husband's family for more than 20 years. I have been living with my parents-in-law. Let's talk about my father-in-law. He is a retired civil servant, gentle and elegant, always smiling. But after all these years of living together, I still don't feel like I belong.
During the Chinese New Year, I said buy him some clothes! He will immediately ask how much it is, and then give you the money back. If you don't tell him the price, he will give more and not less. I wanted to show filial piety, but I didn't give you a chance at all.
The weather changed, he said his arm hurts, his neck hurts. I took the medicinal wine from my hometown and massaged him and applied the medicinal wine. Then he gave me another 500 yuan, saying that it was a hardship fee. I was truly speechless. I wanted to accumulate some merit. I won't be given a chance at all. I didn't even know if he had a lot of self-esteem. Or really don't want to owe us favors. Although I think it's good, I just feel that the family seems to be a little too clear. Missing the point temperature. I didn't feel like I belonged. Friends, do you like such a father-in-law?
My brother is the opposite of my father-in-law. My brother is the boss. His personality is that he likes to help his friends and he also likes to trouble his friends. Every time I went to his stall, there were three or five people there drinking tea. Some of them are customers, some are classmates. There is a classmate who is very strange, at least half of the year he sits in his stall, and he doesn't leave after dinner. My brother watched the stall at noon and cooked and ate by himself. Every time he cooks, as long as that classmate is still sitting there, he will budget his meals. But if my brother needed some help, the people they were sitting there wouldn't have dropped the chain. Usually my brother goes out to deliver some goods or something. The gang at the stall was also sitting. The air conditioner was on. Kung Fu tea is brewing. They are very comfortable with each other. There is temperature, there is faith. I'm really envious. Although they are not family. But the way they get along with each other is very comfortable.
Are these two personalities the difference between civil servants and entrepreneurs? Or it's a personal personality problem, anyway, I don't like my father-in-law's non-procrastination and non-owe. Loved my brother's troubles at any time. Friends, do you like my father-in-law or my brother?