In our tradition, the old calendar year, which is the Spring Festival, is solemnly celebrated.
The Spring Festival represents a new starting point, a new hope, and a new beginning in the year.
Chinese New Year's Eve is here, the year is about to turn the page, and the new year is about to begin.
Chinese New Year's Eve, learn to live three times.
1. Let go of obsessions
In life, I often encounter some things that make me suddenly obsessed with it.
Some people, because of betrayal, are obsessed with the warmth of the old love, can't let go, and have been trapped in no one's land.
Some people, because of the trough, are obsessed with the past glory and can't let go, and have been trapped in the past peak.
Some people, because of disputes, are obsessed with small things and hatred, can't let go, and have been trapped in hatred.
Some people, because of rumors, are obsessed with right and wrong, can't let go, and have been trapped in gossip.
Obsession is a continuous and persistent state of mind towards people and things in the past.
This kind of mentality can affect a person's mood and make it impossible for a person to look forward.
A person, with obsession, will always be trapped in the persistent emotion, so that he cannot take a step forward.
A person, with obsession, will constantly affect his psychological state and make himself unable to be sunny and clear.
In the new year, remove the old and welcome the new.
Get rid of the old ones, get rid of the bad influences, and try to let go of the obsessions.
Let the obsession be turned away together in the days of removing the old, like turning the pages of the days.
Let the obsession, in the removal of the old and the welcome of the new, close the past together and start anew.
Second, put down the seed
Friend, there is a difference of more than 1,000 kilometers between my hometown and the place where I work.
This more than 1,000 kilometers is not only blocked by nostalgia.
There are also some human feelings that he can't understand.
There is an old man in his family, who is 70 years old this year, and wants to celebrate his birthday.
Of course, it's good to have a big birthday, the family has face, and your face is bright.
However, the work of the old man's family, sons, as well as grandchildren, is not very good.
This year's income is not expected to be much.
The son and grandson very much hope that the grandfather can not put it this year, because if it is, people will have face in front of them, and after the year, they will not be able to live.
After the year, because of this big birthday feast, the pocket will be empty.
In fact, if there are elderly people in the family, if the economic conditions permit, putting a big birthday is also a thing to make the elderly happy and everyone happy.
However, also look at your own financial situation. Don't force yourself to save face, and make it difficult for you to move an inch after the year.
The old man listened to the persuasion of his family, so he made a birthday banquet in a small area at home, just a family, and ate a big meal happily.
In life, face is important, and it is not important, at some moments, you must know how to give up face and save your family.
Chinese New Year's Eve, remove the old and welcome the new.
Many people, when they return home, start to call friends and drink friends, even if their pockets are not too high, they have to be fat and rush to pay.
New Year's party, is a festive thing.
In addition, you should also look at your own situation, and don't let yourself go home empty-handed after a nonsensical meal.
On Chinese New Year's Eve, holiday items, you have to buy a little, but you don't have to buy a lot.
There is no need to be too wasteful in order to let others see how good the decoration of the home is.
To live, people must learn to live for themselves.
face, we must learn to let go moderately, and let ourselves live easily and freely.
3. Let go of your worries
A new year is coming.
Some people may be overly worried about what to do in the new year because of the influence of the past.
Whatever happened in the past, let go of your worries.
When a person is overly worried, it can affect a person's mood and ability to think.
If a person's ability to think is disturbed, it can affect one's judgment.
If one's judgment is affected, one's choices will be affected.
In the new year, we must learn to let go of our worries and let the new year start easily.
When you let go of your worries, you let go of all the worries that you carry on your shoulders.
When you let go of your worries, you will have time to look forward, move forward, and set out forward.
In the new year, stride forward, work hard to precipitate, there will definitely be surprises waiting for you ahead.
The new year is coming.
Here, I wish my friends a happy new year, all wishes come true, all the best, and a happy family.
Thank you for following me, appreciating my articles, and encouraging me in the past year!
Thank you, because of your encouragement, I will continue to work hard in the new year, with words, warm the four seasons!
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