Thirty and forty are not confused, what is it?

Mondo Culture Updated on 2024-02-06

At present, it is the Spring Festival period, many wanderers have returned to their hometowns for the New Year, and there are various gatherings every day, so some young men and girls, even if they are very general now, and even very depressed, the important thing is whether this person has been tossing and working hard, if he has never stopped working hard and does not accept his fate, then this person must have a future to a large extent.

Therefore, poverty is divided into different situations, some people are poor, they are even lazy in their thoughts, he thinks that he deserves to live a poor life in his life, then this person is unlikely to have a great future, and a person is only temporarily poor, has been brave to change, this kind of poverty just will not last for a long time, so we should associate more enterprising, hard-working young people, because these people basically have a great future.

On the other hand, there are a large number of people around me, who are forty or fifty years old and can't do anything in any way, and there is nothing to be praised, and this kind of person is slowly marginalized in interpersonal relationships, whether it is marriage or career, they are relatively unsuccessful.

Why educate young people instead of older people? First, young people have strong understanding, because the younger they are, the less they are polluted by society, the purer their hearts are, the more sober their minds will be, and the easier it will be to give birth to wisdom. On the contrary, if he is older and has a lot of experience, but he is still not good at mixing when he is older, it can only mean that he is exposed to wrong ideas, but it is difficult for this kind of person to change, and it is difficult to teach. Second, young people have a long time, a future, fighting spirit, and passion. The older middle-aged and elderly people have no future, they are tormented by life to pieces, they are very easy to lie down, have no execution in doing things, and give up halfway. So educating young people is much cheaper than educating older people, and it's easier to be profitable.

Thirty and stand, forty is not confused, fifty and know the destiny of heaven, and stand, what is this standing? I think it's about ambition and ambition. But now many women are forty or fifty years old, this ambition and ambition can't stand up, you see that all marriages are a mess, basically when they are forty or fifty, they can't even do what they should do at the age of thirty, they don't have a little ambition and backbone, they rely on a man who has no feelings to live, and they live secretly, thinking that they are old and need a companion, and they feel that they are not easy to find without this man!

Essentially, they don't have confidence in themselves, they don't dare to change, and they're afraid to step out of their comfort zone. So when you reach this age, you have no career, no virtue, no ambition and backbone, you will find that not only strangers, but even your own children do not respect you, and they will not listen to you!

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