In the quiet night of the military port, the waves gently swayed the battleship. 43 years ago, Su Xiaoming, a 23-year-old female singer, became a sensation with a song "Night in the Military Port" and became a high-profile star in the 80s. However, today, 43 years later, there is only the echo of the song "Night in the Military Port" in the music world, and Su Xiaoming's figure is difficult to find.
At the peak of his career, Su Xiaoming chose to go to France. This decision led her to renounce her Chinese nationality and become a Frenchman. Her resolute devotion to France also led to the breakdown of her marriage with her first husband. Although she has experienced a low point in her life because of this, her ex-husband has always been in deep pain and unable to extricate himself.
After living in France for 10 years, Su Xiaoming returned to China as an actress and brought her second French husband and mixed-race daughter with her. This return has attracted widespread public attention. Some rejoiced at her return, after all, she was once a goddess in people's hearts; Some people also condemned her behavior of returning to China to film after becoming a citizen of another country.
But what is the truth of the matter? Why did she choose to go to France at the peak of her career? How is her ex-husband doing now?
Su Xiaoming was born in a privileged family, his father was a literary and artistic worker in the army, who had personally experienced the war and served as the head of the General Political Song and Dance Troupe; Her mother was also a member of the revolutionary ranks, joined the army at the age of 16, and served as deputy political commissar of the General Political Song and Dance Troupe. It was in this family context that her artistic talent was fully explored. However, due to the special circumstances at the time, her parents suffered unfair treatment, which caused the children's schoolwork to suffer.
Despite living in a military compound in Beijing, Su Xiaoming showed a keen interest in performing arts from an early age. She started playing the piano and hoped to one day let herself go on stage. She became famous at a young age, and became famous overnight with "The Night of the Military Port" and became one of the most popular female singers in the 80s.
However, the trajectory of life is always difficult. At the peak of his career, Su Xiaoming made a surprising decision: to go to France. This choice not only changed her own destiny, but also affected the lives of those around her. As a result, their marriage to their first husband broke down, and their breakup caused deep pain to both of them. Although the marriage failed, the experience became an indelible page in her life.
During his 10 years in France, Su Xiaoming worked hard to integrate into local life, while not giving up his artistic dream. She returns to the stage, becomes an actress, and finds a new love. When she returned to China with her second husband and daughter, she was greeted by an uproar. There was a lot of talking, blessings and doubts.
For those who questioned her, Su Xiaoming chose to prove himself with actions. She continues to develop her acting career in China, trying to prove that she is not just making money in China through the popularity she once had. For those who supported her, she was grateful and worked harder to put her heart into her work.
As for her ex-husband and their married life, according to insiders, the divorce caused them great pain. However, time is the best healing medicine, and as the years passed, they each came out of the shadows and started their lives anew. Although they are no longer husband and wife, the emotional bond between them remains.
The real reason for Su Xiaoming's 10-year experience in France and his choice to return is still a mystery. Some people speculate that she chose to go to France for better development opportunities and an environment for artistic creation; Others believe that she has found her true self and sense of belonging in a foreign country. And no matter how she chooses, it belongs to her personal life and experience.
Looking back at all this now, we will find that everyone's life has its own unique trajectory and choices. Whether it's right or wrong, it's an integral part of their lives. And for us, respecting their choices and understanding their experiences is the most important thing. In the compound, she became popular for her unique voice and became a bright star. Since she was a child, she has had a love and pursuit of literature and art, and has applied for the Beijing Art Troupe many times. However, due to the special background of the times at that time, although her performance was good enough, she failed to win the favor of the art troupe.
In 1975, with the change of family situation, she was finally able to join the army as she wished, and became an energetic literary soldier. In the army, she not only continued to improve her singing skills, but also learned the perseverance and responsibility of a soldier. Although on many occasions she failed to become a soloist, this did not stop her from pursuing her artistic heart.
At the right time, popular songs in Minato Ward became popular. Su Xiaoming is keenly aware of this trend and hopes to take this opportunity to open up his own world. She did not completely give up the singing of military songs, but worked hard to seek breakthroughs and innovations to give new vitality to military songs.
In 1980, shortly after the resumption of the "Beijing Evening News", a "New Star ** Meeting" was held. With the support of the leaders of the regiment, Su Xiaoming got this valuable opportunity to show. With the help of the group, Ma Jinxing tailored a song for her, and then Liu Shizhao carefully composed the tune.
After in-depth understanding, Liu Shizhao skillfully combined the fishing songs of southern Fujian with the emotions of sailors to create the popular song "Night of the Military Port". Without a rehearsal, during the Mid-Autumn Festival in 1980, Su Xiaoming sang this military song with her unique voice at the Capital Gymnasium. That night, she became the brightest star, and this song became a classic of the times.
Although "Night at the Military Port" is deeply loved by the masses, in the context of that special era, this song has also been questioned a lot. Some people think it is too tender, and even label Su Xiaoming as a "disrespectful military song". However, this song is still sung throughout the country and has touched the heartstrings of countless people. Songs that are loved by the public should be sung without fear!
It was the general's firm support that allowed Su Xiaoming to avoid the predicament and become a hot singer at that time, leading a new ** era. However, after achieving certain achievements in the mainland, affected by the "tide of going abroad" at that time, even at the peak of her career, Su Xiaoming still made a decision that changed her life - to study abroad.
In the 80s of the 20th century, Su Xiaoming's fame was skyrocketing, and she also met her destined partner - Chen Xiaowei early. Chen Xiaowei, who is also the pillar of the song and dance troupe, is an authentic Beijinger, and Su Xiaoming's personalities complement each other, and the two are in love. In the early days of marriage, despite the difficult living conditions, the two enjoyed themselves. Chen Xiaowei took on most of the housework, especially cooking, while Su Xiaoming often went out to party with his friends Song Dandan, Zhao Baogang and others. When Su Xiaoming's mother was sick, Chen Xiaowei, the son-in-law, was more concerned than his daughter.
However, with Su Xiaoming's popularity, a crack gradually appeared in the relationship between the two. Rumors from the outside world are spreading, and many people question the compatibility between Chen Xiaowei and Su Xiaoming. Due to work reasons, the two were often separated from each other, and the communication was inconvenient at that time, so the relationship gradually became estranged. But that's not what really led to the separation of the two. Su Xiaoming's decision to study abroad became the last straw that crushed the relationship between the two. She tried to persuade Chen Xiaowei to go abroad with her, but was refused.
It can be said that the decision to study abroad completely changed the trajectory of Su Xiaoming's life. Neither was willing to back down, and finally in the spring of 1985, they ended their five-year marriage. Subsequently, Su Xiaoming went to France alone, leaving Chen Xiaowei immersed in pain. In fact, Su Xiaoming chose to go to France for another reason, her two older sisters both live in France, which makes her feel dependent. Initially, not only Chen Xiaowei objected, but the song and dance troupe also did not agree to her departure. But at Su Xiaoming's insistence, the chief finally agreed to her application for a job change.
After arriving in France, Su Xiaoming went to his sister and immediately began to find a school to learn the language. In order to make ends meet, she also started a small business. However, business did not go well. Fortunately, in December of that year, she was successfully admitted to a local ** college and began her ** journey. In a foreign country, Su Xiaoming's talent was showcased, and she recorded Chinese songs for sale to support her studies. After graduating, the school held a solo concert for her. Originally, she thought that she would return to China after completing her studies, but the appearance of a man changed her plans.
This man is a Frenchman Eric, who has a soft spot for Su Xiaoming and always pays attention to her dynamics. Although Eric specializes in finance, he also has a talent for cooking. As a Frenchman, romance is an innate trait for him. Under the fierce pursuit, Su Xiaoming fell in love and took his sister to meet Eric. Five years after divorcing Chen Xiaowei, she entered into marriage again and chose to become a French citizen. After marriage, the two had a mixed-race daughter, who also had French nationality.
Despite living in France, Su Xiaoming has never forgotten his roots. She often sings Chinese songs in France to spread Chinese culture. Since leaving China in 1985, she has rarely returned to China. However, ten years later, Su Xiaoming decided to return to China for development. This time, she reappeared in front of people as an actress. China's music scene has undergone countless changes, and Su Xiaoming, who was once brilliant, has now faded out of people's sight.
When she first returned to China, she faced a lot of difficulties, but in the end, at the suggestion of her friend Jiang Wen, she chose to become an actor. and participated in CCTV's variety show that year. However, her French nationality and life after returning to China have caused speculation and questioning, and some even questioned that she returned to China because she couldn't get along abroad.
However, in fact, Su Xiaoming chose to return to China because she wanted to be with her parents to fulfill her filial piety, and at this time her husband was also sent to work in China. So, she returned to China with her family. Despite being 38 years old, she bravely stepped into the field of film and television and accepted roles appropriate to her age, even if most of the time it was a supporting role. But her performance in film and television dramas has made people reacquaint themselves with her, and her natural and real performance is amazing.
Now Su Xiaoming lives a happy life, while her ex-husband Chen Xiaowei was disheartened after learning that she was married and chose to go to the United States to live. Although I also found a new partner over there and got married and had children. Su Xiaoming and Chen Xiaowei have been divorced for 38 years, and both of them are over sixty years old, and they have found their own happiness.
From a former popular singer to an actor who became a monk halfway, Su Xiaoming has returned to the public's field of vision with a new attitude. In the face of the audience's doubts and black material, she has always kept a low profile. Despite the skepticism, her song "Night at the Military Port" is still a classic. For Su Xiaoming, I think she is a brave and talented woman. Whether it is in the field of ** or in the field of film and television, she has shown good strength and talent. Despite the difficulties and doubts she faced, she always insisted on her dreams and the pursuit of happiness that deserves our learning and respect.