The recent high-profile TV series "The First Half of My Life" has been praised for its profound revelations about modern workplace life and complex interpersonal relationships. In the play, Luo Ziqun's marriage choice has become a topic of conversation among the audience. Why would she rather choose Bai Guang, a "domestic violence man", than the excellent Chen Junsheng? What are the psychological considerations and social pressures behind this? Let's take an in-depth look at Luo Ziqun's view of marriage, living conditions, and the influence of Xue Zhenzhu's role as a mother on her.
In "The First Half of My Life", Luo Zijun is portrayed as a woman with outstanding looks and excellent academics, and the concept of marriage is affected by multiple pressures from family and society. Her mother, Xue Zhenzhu, is a resilient single mother who is raising two daughters on her own, and the hardships of life make her expectations for the future more realistic and realistic.
Xue Zhenzhu's tenacity and frugality had a profound impact on Luo Zijun. In order to maintain the family's livelihood, my mother often secretly smoothed some green onions in the supermarket and cut down on food and clothing. This way of life is deeply rooted in Luo Zijun's heart, forming her appreciation and cherishing of material things.
Luo Ziqun, as Xue Zhenzhu's daughter, has a unique psychological impact on the choice of marriage. Her choice to marry Bai Guang, a "domestic violence man", in the play seems to be an unwise choice on the surface, however, judging from her family background and life experience, this choice has deep internal reasons.
In Luo Ziqun's view, Bai Guang is also a lonely and poor person, in addition to love, there is also a pity for each other to support each other and warm up. In her eyes, white light needs to be understood and cared for. This concept is not only based on her understanding of her mother, but also reflects her own ideals of love and marriage.
However, Luo Ziqun's concept of marriage has suffered a heavy blow in reality. Shiro's impatience for quick success, lack of business, and roughness and irritability in marriage make her life difficult. Under this great contrast, she began to reflect on her marriage choices, but for various reasons, she chose to stay in marriage.
Xue Zhenzhu as a mother, although she has paid a lot for her children, her persistence and emphasis on the differences between sisters have also made Luo Ziqun feel more pressure in her life. Mother's preference and comparison of her sister made Luo Ziqun feel inferior and not understood since he was a child.
In the choice of partner and marriage, these psychological pressures may become a basis for Luo Ziqun's choice. She would rather stay in the marriage of a "domestic violence man" than choose the ideal partner in the eyes of her sister, because it may mean that she is once again in a situation of being compared and evaluated.
At the same time, Chen Junsheng played a special role in Luo Zijun's life. With an annual salary of one million, he was lost in his marriage and was divorced by Ling Ling's routine. This makes us think about the importance of life decisions. Behind the success of the workplace, the choice of marriage and family also determines a person's happiness.
The story of Luo Zijun and Luo Ziqun reflects the dilemma that people face in modern society when it comes to choosing marriage. Every decision in life can have far-reaching consequences, whether it's success in the workplace or in marriage. In this reality, we may find some inspiration from the experiences of the characters in the play, examine our own marriage concepts and life choices, and face life choices more wisely.
Through Luo Zijun's marriage choice, "The First Half of My Life" profoundly depicts the entanglement between family and career of modern women, as well as their thinking on the concept of marriage. The influence of his mother, Xue Zhenzhu, made Luo Zijun have a complex and profound understanding of family and marriage.
At the same time, Chen Junsheng's experience reminds us that behind success, marriage and life choices are equally important. It is hoped that while watching the movie, the audience can deeply think about these common problems in real life, and meet the future life choices with a more sensible attitude.