Author: Emotional expert Guoguo.
Introduction
All victories are insignificant compared to victories over oneself; All failures are even more insignificant compared to the failure to lose oneself.Your current poverty, all your anxieties and pains, are paying for what you have done in the past. If you don't want to wait until you're old enough to pay for your current mistakes, then set up perseverance, change yourself, and overcome yourself.
As long as you can overcome yourself, as long as you change, everything changes. You will be reborn, usher in a new world, and have a different life.
Everyone wants to die, and when we are about to die, it is enough to be able to say to ourselves with a clear conscience: "I am worthy of myself and my family in this life, and I will live up to this time in the world."
Everything begins with the end, overcoming the past self and starting a new life.
1. Constantly reflect and summarize the past
When you reach middle age, if you still have nothing to achieve and are destitute, you should calm down and reflect on what you have done in the past.
Sachs said, "Most of the poverty in the world is a pathology, the result of a bad life, a bad environment, and a bad mind. ”
Everything has a cause and must have an effect, today's failure and poverty must have a reason, reflect on yourself, from laziness, love of face, too ambitious, do not like to learn, extravagance and waste, careless friends and other causes of poverty, find out your own faults, resolutely no longer make similar mistakes, and say goodbye to the wrong self in the past.
Make up your mind to overcome yourself, and the best thing to do again is not to live, but to become a good self, you have changed, everything has changed, you are fine, everything is fine.
2. Re-plan yourself
No matter what has happened, don't complain and blame yourself too much, and pay for the mistakes of the past who are "willing to gamble and lose".
The main thing is to take the lesson, overcome yourself and make yourself better.
After finding out your mistakes, the first thing is to correct your mistakes first, and then you have to adjust your mentality, let yourself return to zero, let your mentality be empty, and make a clear and reliable plan for the road you want to take in the future, so that you can take office in the best state and travel lightly.
Starting over is also a time to test our will, and we must definitely avoid being harassed by the bad people and bad things of the past, and avoid going back to the old path.
Turn yourself into silent mode, pause all the joys of life, and do what you've planned wholeheartedly.
The key to overcoming yourself, don't go back to the old ways!
3. Although the road is far, the line is coming; It's hard, but it's done
Some people are poor because they can't accept that they are getting rich slowly!
The more adversity there is, the more we can't rush it, the more we have to calm down, Rome was not built in a day, keep in mind that "if you want to hurry, you can't reach it." ”
We are only a little poor now, and there is nothing to fear, but if we go down the "Tao" because we are in a hurry, there will be no day when we will turn over.
Poor to rich, ten years of road; Rich to poor, just one ride!
From rich to poor, sometimes it is just a moment to invest in the wrong project and make the wrong choice; And from poor to rich, it is a process of slow accumulation.
It's like a person who is sick, the illness comes like a mountain, and the illness goes like a thread. It's also true that the poor slowly become rich!
Overcome your mentality of making quick money!
4. Firmly believe that good things are about to happen
It's not the thing itself that crushes a person, it's the emotions!
At this time, our mentality is very important, mentality determines success or failure, and if you adjust your mentality, you will win.
Climb the slope with a calm and positive attitude, firmly believe that your tomorrow will be better, and believe that good things are about to happen.
Don't complain when you meet people, and shout poor when you see people, this will only subtract points for yourself and make others look down on you, but it will not play the slightest role.
Tell yourself that you just failed temporarily because you went the wrong way, but now you have corrected it, you have changed, your life will change for the better, and you will have money immediately.
It's time to eat, drink, run, rest, adjust your mentality, take care of your body, and the rest of the time is all about making money and learning.
Overcome yourself and you are God!
Closing Remarks:
During the Three Kingdoms period, Lu Meng of Eastern Wu did not recognize a word, and after finishing military affairs every day, he drank and hunted, and did not want to forge ahead, and was laughed at by the world as "Wuxia Ameng." ”
Later, under the persuasion of Sun Quan, he threw away all entertainment, changed himself, and began to study and study.
Three years later, Lu Su admired it and said: "The general is really, Shibei should be impressed in three days." ”
If we can change ourselves, overcome ourselves, and persevere, the phrase "Shibei should be impressed in three days" is not an exaggeration to apply to us.
The greatest victory in life is to overcome yourself
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