The Ordinary Path: The Entanglement of Forgiveness and Hurt.
Life, like an ordinary road, winds and turns, and everyone is groping forward in it. On this path, we may encounter all kinds of setbacks and hurts, but everyone has the right to choose to forgive or hold grudges. However, forgiveness is not always the best medicine, and sometimes it may just bury the pain and make the hurt deeper.
Shin Shin, an energetic girl, her world was originally full of sunshine. However, when she was betrayed and hurt along the way in life, she chose to forgive. She thought that through forgiveness, she could erase the shadows of the past and get her life back on track. However, she was wrong.
Forgiveness did not bring peace of mind to Shin Shin, but instead plunged her into deeper entanglement and pain. Every time she forgives, it's like pouring salt on a wound and making her miserable. She began to doubt her own worth, developed a fear of relationships, and her life became more difficult.
In this process, Shin Shin gradually realized that forgiveness is not the same as forgetting, nor is it equal to **. Forgiveness is sometimes just a matter of deceiving oneself and making oneself feel better. True healing requires confronting the hurt, acknowledging its existence, and then finding a way to deal with and release it that is truly suitable for you.
As a result, Shin Shin began to bravely face her pain, and she no longer chose to escape or forgive. She began to face up to the people and things that hurt her, and used courage and strength to fight the fear and pain in her heart. Although the process was extremely difficult, Shin Shin understood that this was the only path to true freedom and peace.
At the end of the ordinary road, Shin Shin may encounter new setbacks and injuries. But she is no longer the girl who easily chooses to forgive. She will use her own way to write her own story and pursue her own happiness and peace.
In this ordinary world, we are all walkers, and everyone is looking for their own path. And true growth may be to learn not to forgive easily, but to face harm bravely, so that every setback becomes our motivation to move forward. Because only in this way can we walk out of our own extraordinary in the ordinary road.