Everyone should have noticed it, and now the online discussion seems to have entered a misunderstanding:
Many people are simply arguing for the sake of quarrelling, what is reversed, what Mercedes-Benz man regrets, what Mrs. Xu does a lot of evil. It seems that detaching from the incident itself and picking up the "bad deeds" can negate everything.
But aren't we discussing issues to make sense? Who's at fault? What's wrong? How do you learn a lesson?
It doesn't have to be for the Mercedes-Benz man to lose his job, or for Mrs. Xu to cut off the Internet celebrity road.
Zhou Hongyi was quoted as saying, "If you discuss issues with the mentality of a college debate competition, everyone has a point of view, and the point of view remains the same from the beginning to the end, which proves that you are a shark and I am a smart person." Then no problem can be solved, and it will only create a large number of bar essences. ”
In real life, we often encounter people with "adversarial personalities", the same question, you say you should go to the left, he has to cite a special case of "right" to refute you; And if you say that you should go to the right, he will inevitably cite a special case of "left" to refute you.
Here's what I think about the incident:
Clause. First, the traffic police department and local managers have determined that it is a Mercedes-Benz car plug, so everyone should stop being smart.
The online transmission ** is all cut and processed, and it is not comprehensive.
Why do you have to lift that bar! Besides, ** deals with the man getting out of the car and smashing the car with angry and swear words, not "plugging".
Clause. Second, the key point of this incident is that if there is a conflict because of the gase, how should we deal with it correctly?
Both the person who is plugged and the person who is plugged should be sane and avoid road rage. Everyone is away from home, and it's best to have nothing to do. If we don't cause trouble, we must also avoid disputes and trivialize them, instead of infinitely magnifying the incident or even losing control.
Originally, a small matter the size of a sesame mung bean had to be known to everyone, and the whole society was arguing endlessly, and it also involved losing jobs and collapsing people, so why bother?
Mrs. Xu can let it go, give it a convenience, and there is nothing wrong with not letting it; On the Mercedes side, if people don't let you, then you wait for the opportunity to get the next car. Even if you think it's the other party who is plugging, in the same way, you can just let it go, and give it a convenience.
3. The act of adding stoppers is an extremely common situation on the road, and it happens all the time. Although everyone agrees that it is wrong to add plugs, most people have similar experiences, and it is difficult to put an end to them.
Who doesn't have a rush time, right?
If the distance between the cars is large enough for you to calmly insert into the team, you will operate decisively and complete the queue insertion action quickly and safely.
If the distance is not enough, and you have to add plugs, at least you have to have an awareness, I have to let the normal queue people give priority, people let me, signal to express gratitude, or you give people a smile in advance, give a thumbs up, if people let it, also express gratitude, if not, let's wait for the next one.
I hope everyone drives in a civilized manner, don't drive with emotions, calm down for a few seconds when encountering things, think about the family is looking forward to us going home safely, if it is a small matter of sesame mung beans, don't care. Isn't it just a matter of waiting a few dozen more seconds? Once there is a dispute and the small thing becomes big, it is not a matter of minutes or ten minutes.
Finally, the Chinese New Year is almost over, I wish you all a happy new year and all the best!