Nowadays, there are more and more older leftover women in society, and the victims of this social phenomenon of leftover men and women are not only the parties concerned, but also the families of the parties.
The mother introduced eighteen objects to her daughter, and the daughter was very resistant before every blind date, and the mother seemed to have become her biggest enemy.
One of the blind dates is called Xiao Zhang, Xiao Zhang is the contractor of an engineering department, reliable and self-motivated, and his mother is very satisfied with this Xiao Zhang. After a few months of contact with Xiao Zhang, her daughter dumped Xiao Zhang. Mom said, "Don't want such a good man, what do you want?" ”
I can't afford it! I just can't look at it! "My daughter is going to spew spit. Mom didn't understand, closed the door, leaned on the edge of the bed and wept silently.
Later, the daughters of several men who went on blind dates were still not satisfied, and they all ended up failing.
The mother was heartbroken by her daughter's marriage, and the relationship with her daughter deteriorated because of it.
One day, the mother and her daughter had sudden chest pain when they quarreled, and after being sent to the hospital, they were found to have breast cancer. The mother said that she was sick and passed away later, and her daughter had no one to take care of her, and she hoped that her daughter could find a companion soon. The daughter did not satisfy her mother's wrongs, and even contradicted her mother, "I want to go to you, don't let me go on a blind date again, what's the good of getting married?" Men are not to be trusted. With such extreme remarks, the angry mother is critically ill.
After that, it didn't take long for the mother to go to heaven. After the father came home from the field, the daughter said indifferently, your wife is gone. The father blamed his daughter for being ignorant, so the mother was angry. The daughter raised her voice, "First death, then life, when the life is reached, you have to leave, no one can keep it, can you blame me?" ”
The father scolded, "You daughter who doesn't talk about filial piety. After that, the father kicked his daughter out of the house and has not been in touch since.
It's a sad story, but this phenomenon of urging marriage is going on all the time in our lives. Should parents urge marriage? Why should a daughter be an older leftover girl?
The traditional view of marriage and love of parents is that the woman should marry, and she will not marry when she is older, first, she will be gossiped about by her neighbors, and secondly, she will miss the best age for marriage and lose the competitiveness of the marriage market.
The daughter, however, is influenced by Western culture and social pressures, wants to be an only child, or has unrealistic fantasies about men and marriage.
Parents and children are family members, not enemies, and they can sit down and communicate with each other calmly, and understand each other's thoughts and concepts.
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