Since Dabao was born five years ago, my wife and I have been thinking about a question, do we want Erbao?
In the past five years, our attitude has roughly gone through the stage of looking at God's will to what can be had, to not having to, to ought to be, and finally to not being able to have.
When we look at the providence, we all feel that with the great treasure of health, life has been completed, and it is okay to have two treasures or not, and we do not force it.
After a while, we felt that Dabao needed a playmate now, and a loved one who could accompany her for a longer time in the future, so in order not to make Dabao feel lonely after our death, we began to think that Erbao could have it.
After another period of time, we thought that if we had Erbao, our wife would have to reduce the time spent with Dabao, which would make her feel lost and even depressed, and we didn't want to see such a Dabao, so we felt that Erbao didn't have to have it.
After a while, when we saw that my mother, two aunts and uncles took turns to accompany my grandmother when she was hospitalized due to injury, we felt that when we were old, would Dabao also need a relative to share the burden of taking care of us with her? So we felt that there should be two treasures.
The above attitude change has gone through nearly five years, if you are pregnant now, your wife is already an older mother, and in the past few years, your wife's body has suffered from chronic pain, she has no confidence to raise a baby from scratch, so our Erbao plan, finally decided to cancel, and there is no need to think in vain in the future.
It wasn't until the idea of asking for two treasures was completely dispelled that I suddenly realized how great the power I exercised. I exercised 50% of my vote on whether a "person" should exist or not, and this is probably the most impactful decision I've ever made in my life that has had an impact on the world!