Zhen Huan came back from Ganlu Temple and the queen formed two power groups in the harem, and both sides began to pull up the banner to recruit qualified concubines to join, and the decisive battle was about to start, and everyone also chose sides one after another. Before talking to An Lingrong, Zhen Huan met everyone one by one and tested everyone's attitude.
Ning Guiren does not stand on both sides and is a faction of its own; Meizhuang, Duanfei, and Concubine Jing have always been good friends with Zhen Huan, so they naturally belong to Zhen Huan's faction; Xin Guiren made it clear that he stood in line with Zhen Huan; Concubine Qi resolutely supported the queen. Zhen Huan has many powerful people, and there are two high-level players, Duan Concubine and Jing Fei; There is only one concubine on the queen's side, and she has the upper hand. The harem mother is more expensive than the son, and she can fight the prince no better than the concubine. There is only one third elder brother on the queen's head who is always growing taller; Zhen Huan has already pocketed the fourth elder brother in order to return to the palace, and there are two princesses by her side, Haoyue and Wen Yi, plus the unborn child in her belly, and she won again. The balance of power has tilted to Zhen Huan's side. An Lingrong has always been thoughtful, and the situation in the harem must be clear to him. Looking at her own situation, although she has been conscientiously helping the queen to do things, the queen has never let her get pregnant, and she is squeezed by concubines from time to time, and her life is not going well. What is the first thought when you draw a big pie to your boss in the workplace but never honor it, and your colleagues intrigue all day long, self-consume infighting, and you can't make money and are in a bad mood? Of course, it is just a job change, and the owner does not do the west. An Lingrong should be in this mood at this time, she has no affection with the queen, but she is separated because of profit. Seeing that Zhen Huan is there, not only can she be commensurate with the boss sisters, but she lives a leisurely life, and she sends a child as a welfare from time to time, how can she not be tempted. For her, the best result of this trip to talk to Zhen Huan was to join Zhen Huan and successfully change jobs. Let's focus on the details of the conversation.
An Lingrong stopped Zhen Huan first, and called him "sister" when he opened his mouth. When I wrote about Concubine Jing before, I said that when the lower person has not yet understood the true attitude of the superior person, it is most advantageous to first distance himself, maintain neutrality, and maintain a position that can be attacked and retreated. Regardless of the fact that Zhen Huan already knew about the dirty things that An Lingrong had done behind his back, it was uncertain whether they had been separated for so long, whether the relationship was the same as before. Zhen Huan is a concubine, she is a concubine, there is a difference between respect and inferiority, Zhen Huan calls her sister polite, she calls her sister first, it is arrogance.
Sure enough, Zhen Huan didn't eat this set, and said: "I haven't seen my sister for a long time, I really am a nobleman." This is obviously sarcastic, but An Lingrong didn't understand, or she couldn't deal with it calmly according to Zhen Huan's attitude, and she didn't have the flexibility to act at the opportunity, so she could only continue to say according to the routine prepared in advance: "My sister is the real nobleman, I thought that my sister would be lonely and miserable outside, so that my sister would be worried." I never thought that the peak would turn around, but there was a good time to add Ding Tianfu today. ”
She was filming Zhen Huan's sycophants trying to close the distance, but at this time, she really shouldn't be forced to get close. Many people think that sycophants are good words, as long as they pick up good ones, the other party will naturally accept all the orders. In fact, the more superior the person, the more insight into people's hearts, whether it is true or false, it is better not to say it, if it is just a pretend, it is better not to say it, and it is easy to hit the horse's leg if you have nothing to say. The highest level of sycophants should be to pick their own sincere agreement and the objective existence of the other party's merits, so as to express their sincerity, and the other party can listen appropriately.
Although Zhen Huan didn't like it, she still gave a step: "Even if my sister is a concubine today and is in charge of the main position of the first palace, I think it will be difficult to calm down." "There will be steps here, because Zhen Huan no longer believes in the emperor's love and commitment when she returns to the palace, and just wants to hold the power in her hands steadily, so she will fight for all the power she can fight for, and she is willing to give An Lingrong a chance, if she can help bring down the queen, maybe there will be a glimmer of life. The workplace is like this, there are no permanent enemies, and the enemies of enemies can form alliances and be friends. If An Lingrong can grasp this gap, he may really be able to successfully join Zhen Huan's camp. She said: "After my sister left, Ling Rong served the emperor for my sister for so long, and she didn't have a son and a half daughter, which is really Ling Rong's blessing." ”
Having said that, it's okay, An Lingrong picked up the steps and came down, and followed Zhen Huan to say that her treatment on the queen's side was really not good, not only did she worry about her life, but she didn't have any sweetness at all. Next, it was a great opportunity to show that he had the heart to take refuge, but he didn't grasp it, and there were branches.
She said: "It's just my own daughter, but I have become someone else's child, how does my sister feel?" "Before I passed the interview, I started to do things, trying to provoke the relationship between the boss and the old employee. This sentence is obviously aimed at Concubine Jing, accusing Concubine Jing of being unwilling to return Haoyue to Zhen Huan. But the pain of Haoyue is not only caused by Concubine Jing, but also Zhen Huan's own insistence on leaving the palace, and the emperor's ruthless cold treatment, which is actually poking Zhen Huan's sore spot. An Lingrong deliberately stepped on it, stealing chickens and rice, and lost the best opportunity.
Zhen Huan was poked in the sore spot, and she never mentioned the matter of plotting against An Lingrong, but said: "Compared with my sister, the child in my belly may be more lucky." "This is obviously angry An Lingrong, after Zhen Huan left the palace, the most favored were An Lingrong and Concubine Qi, but even if they were favored, they guarded the emperor day and night, but they still couldn't conceive children. And I, Zhen Huan, Ling Yunfeng, hit it once. An Lingrong poked Zhen Huan, Zhen Huan came back again, and the two of them were already in a-for-tat posture. At this time, An Lingrong should calm down and try to turn the situation around, after all, she is the one who asks for help in the lower position. The superior can be emotional, but the subordinate must remain sober and restrained, otherwise they will be scattered in two and the inferior will suffer.
As a result, she was angered by Zhen Huan's words, and began to choke: "There are gains and losses, Ling Rong is only afraid that my sister's gains outweigh the losses?" "Zhen Huan has a dualistic mentality towards An Lingrong, she can use it if she can use it, and she doesn't care if she doesn't use it.
So she won't give in, just tear her face. An Lingrong realized that things were not good, and Zhen Huan was not ready to accept her. She can only settle for the second best thing and adopt the second set of plans to fight for the position of the first assistant in the queen's team and suppress her teammate Qi Concubine.
So she mentioned the incident of Zhen Huan slipping off the sedan chair a few days ago, and pointed at Chuxiu Palace. When Zhen Huan heard Chu Xiu Palace, she deliberately provoked the noble people to talk about things first.
First, he didn't let An Lingrong know that he was ready to recruit Xin nobles to join the gang, and second, he avoided the important and trivialized, knowing that An Lingrong cared more about the concubines who fought with her in front of the queen, but he deliberately didn't mention it. An Lingrong continued to instigate: "Sister really thinks it was Xin Guiren who did it?" Sister think about it carefully, who in Chuxiu Palace has a long-standing grudge with her sister? ”
Of course, Zhen Huan knew that it was Concubine Qi, and she also intended to deal with Concubine Qi. At the beginning, Guerjia Emin falsely accused Zhen Yuandao and caused the Zhen family to be exiled to Ningguta, and Zhen's father almost died in prison. But the likes and dislikes of those in power are not easily recognized. The deeper the hatred, the more you have to let go gently. That's why Zhen Huan defended Concubine Qi: "Her Ama belongs to her Amma, and she hasn't done anything to me?" ”
An Lingrong didn't grasp the essentials of the left sentence and the right sentence, and he was about to return in vain, of course, he was unwilling. When he couldn't provoke it, he turned around and sued for peace, saying: "My sister has done too many wrong things in the past......The mistakes of the past have been cast, and Ling Rong only hopes to make up for it a little today. ”
At this time, I remembered to apologize, it was too late, if these words were said when Zhen Huan gave her a chance earlier, it might work. That's the reality! Whether it is in the workplace or in life, many times there is only one opportunity, and it is difficult to turn back if you miss it. In the face of An Lingrong's apology and peace, Zhen Huan was indifferent. When An Lingrong said, "Sister, I don't want to forgive Lingrong for this?" At that time, I really felt that she was hopeless. In the Analects of the Constitution, it is said: "How can we repay virtue if we repay grievances with virtue?" Not every "I'm sorry" should be exchanged for "it's okay." You have the freedom to choose to apologize, and I have the right not to forgive. An Lingrong didn't understand this simple truth. Her logic is that she has apologized in a low voice, why can't she get the other party's sincere forgiveness, this is a second injury to herself. She seems to have forgotten that it was herself who hurt people in the first place! In reality, there are many such people, who obviously do their own wrong, but complain about the victim's unforgiveness.
Zhen Huan didn't want to talk anymore. An Lingrong was still struggling to make one last effort. As he spoke, he approached Zhen Huan, wanting her to notice the smell on her body.
Sure enough, Zhen Huan smelled the aroma. An Lingrong threw the pot to Xin Guiren. Zhen Huan left a sentence of "I understand your intentions, I will be careful" and left without looking back. An Lingrong lost the only chance to join Zhen Huan's camp.
Originally, if she had tried to take refuge in Zhen Huan, she would have had a chance to succeed, but she thought too much and wanted to achieve too many goals - she wanted to take refuge in Zhen Huan but didn't want to offend the queen immediately, and she wanted to frame others, but the gains outweighed the losses, and her dream was shattered. Sometimes it's a good thing for people to be thoughtful, but if you think too much, it becomes a bad thing to think too much. How to balance one's desires is a science.