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The love of beauty is a universal psychological need for many people. With the continuous advancement of technology, plastic surgery has become one of the ways to make people beautiful. However, not every facelift can be done, and there are certain risks associated with cosmetic surgery. Some people may choose to take this risk in order to become beautiful. This article will take the personal experience of two women as an example, the risks and significance of plastic surgery, and the importance of physical appearance for personal development.
There is a 29-year-old woman who works in a beauty salon and has big eyes and double eyelids, and has always been considered a very beautiful girl, even a bit like actress Zhang Jiani. However, because of her work, she has become more and more demanding of her appearance, and she is also full of expectations for her future development. At the suggestion of a colleague, she decided to try plastic surgery and opted for bone grinding surgery to perfect her face shape. The procedure was very difficult and she had to endure not being able to eat properly and having a long swelling of her face. However, when she saw her new look, she felt unacceptable. She was expecting a delicate face, but the surgery removed part of her cheekbones, causing her facial contours to lose support, ** also began to sag, and even nasolabial folds appeared. What saddened her the most was that her face looked a lot older, and even though she was not yet 30 years old, she looked like a middle-aged person in her 40s. She felt very regretful and felt that she was actually very good before plastic surgery. She didn't even dare to go out, and every time she looked in the mirror, she shed tears. The incident had a huge impact on her life, she lost her job, had no income, and spent all day at home depressed.
Another example of the risks of plastic surgery occurred in Liaoning, where a woman decided to go for plastic surgery in order to surprise her boyfriend. She was originally just planning to have a double eyelid surgery to make her eyes look bigger, but the people at the beauty shop suggested that she get an influencer chin, saying that a pointed chin would make her look more cute. Following the advice of the other party, the woman expects to become more beautiful after the operation. However, when the gauze was removed, the woman could barely hold back her tears. Although her double eyelids are made, they look neat and unnatural. And the pointed chin doesn't match her face at all, which feels weird. The woman's boyfriend directly proposed to break up, saying that he could not bring such a girl home to meet her parents because he would feel uncomfortable seeing her. The woman was so sad that her eyes were swollen from crying because of this incident, and she felt very wronged, but she was helpless.
The experiences of these two women are no less than a wake-up call to remind us of the importance of plastic surgery decisions. Many people choose plastic surgery because they are not confident, they do not believe that they can change themselves through hard work and ability, and they pin their hopes on their appearance, hoping to gain the recognition of others through beauty, but this idea is actually unrealistic. Appearance is important, but good looks are not the only attraction. What is truly memorable is the interesting soul, the unique intrinsic value. We should focus on ourselves, stop pandering to other people's tastes, and accept everything we have, no matter what we look like. We need to cultivate our souls and focus on our inner fulfillment, and this is what is truly valuable. Nowadays, we often see women like Jia Ling, who does not have top beauty, but can win the love of many people. This is because of her charisma, humor, and ability to bring positive emotions to people. Therefore, we should realize that the appearance can be changed, but the inner charm is what can really move people's hearts.
The question is, since plastic surgery has such a big risk, why would anyone still want to choose plastic surgery? The main reason for this is a lack of self-confidence. In modern society, under the continuous shaping and expansion of the standard of beauty, more and more people begin to be dissatisfied with their appearance, eager to change their image through plastic surgery, and get more recognition and praise. Especially affected by social **, plastic surgery has become a craze.
However, in the pursuit of beauty, some people tend to base their self-confidence on the approval of others. They don't believe that they can change their image through hard work and accumulation, and instead pin their hopes on cosmetic surgery. They seek the eyes and praise of others, not true self-affirmation. They want to be loved by others through their external beauty, and feel that they can be accepted and recognized. Although this thinking is understandable to some extent, in reality, this mentality of relying on the approval of others is not healthy for personal development.
Beauty is relative, and everyone's definition of beauty is different. What's more, the appearance cannot be maintained for a long time, time will leave a mark on everyone, and the inner charm, temperament and talent are the keys to truly attract people. If a person only focuses on their outward appearance and neglects their inner cultivation, then sooner or later they will find that plastic surgery does not give them true joy and satisfaction. Only by improving one's own quality and strength and cultivating one's own unique charm can one truly gain the recognition of others, rather than relying on appearance to attract others.
Of course, we can't deny the importance of physical appearance in social interactions. Physical appearance is the first impression of a person, and a person's physical appearance may affect how close he is to others in terms of interaction and closeness. A good appearance tends to make a good impression and is conducive to the establishment and development of interpersonal relationships. In some industries, appearance does have a certain impact on career development, such as show business, modeling, etc. However, for most people, physical appearance is not the only factor that determines personal development.
In addition to physical appearance, people pay more attention to a person's personality, abilities, and talents. What really makes a lasting impression on a person is their inner charisma, their thoughts, attitudes, emotions, and behaviors. These things are acquired through cultivation and hard work, and cannot be changed through cosmetic surgery. A person who is ordinary on the outside but rich on the inside is often able to win the recognition and respect of more people. Compared to the ephemeral physical beauty, the inner beauty is more lasting and valuable.
Therefore, spending money on cosmetic surgery does not really solve a person's problems. Cosmetic surgery can certainly change the appearance to a certain extent, but it cannot change a person's heart, nor can it change their character and personality. If a person has no inner roots, self-affirmation and self-confidence, they will still feel unconfident no matter how much their appearance changes. On the contrary, if a person is full and confident on the inside, they will still be able to make a strong impression even if they are ordinary in appearance.
Although plastic surgery can change a person's appearance, it does not solve a person's internal problems. Appearance is important, but the inner charm, character, and abilities are equally important. A person's appearance is just a skin, it does not determine a person's worth and ability. If a person relies too much on their appearance to gain the approval and praise of others, then they may fall into an endless circle of seeking beauty. Compared with plastic surgery, we should pay more attention to personal inner cultivation and improvement, cultivate our own unique charm, and gain the recognition of others through strength and talent. While pursuing beauty, we must cherish our original appearance, accept everything we have, and no longer cater to the tastes of others. True beauty is cultivated both inside and outside, and only by cultivating one's own inner self can one exude true charm and truly attract the attention of others. Cosmetic surgery is just one way to be beautiful on the outside, but true beauty requires us to improve from the inside out.
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