People must learn to accept the unsatisfactory life of life

Mondo Psychological Updated on 2024-02-18

New Year's wishes, everyone hopes that everything will go well, all the best, and better and better in the coming year, but how many people can get their wishes?

Yesterday I called ** to an eldest sister, her husband just died of kidney failure for half a year, she should have been a good person in the village, when her husband was not sick, he would carpenter, cook, and build a house, but after he was sick, he couldn't do heavy work, when the child was still young, the eldest sister supported a family alone, and there was almost no time to rest for many years, and the crops in the field; seedlings and millet in the field; Vegetables in the vegetable patch. The eldest brother also does what he can, but in the countryside, far away from the market town, no one rents his land, and he can't give land and fields, and the family also raises pigs. The eldest brother has been fighting the disease for nearly 10 years, but he still hasn't survived. Now, the sons are grown up and can share a little of the family's work. I asked about a family under the eldest sister's house, I remember that there was a little girl in that family, 3 years ago, it seemed to be more than 1 year old, because it was only more than 20 meters away from the eldest sister's house, the little girl often went to the eldest sister's house to play, and the little girl's grandmother was only in her 40s. I said, that kid is much taller now, isn't he? The eldest sister said: I have grown much taller, and now I go to school in the market town. Her father was not in good health and couldn't do any heavy work, her father hit someone with a car, and the insurance company paid part of it, and he had to pay more than 100,000 yuan to others, and he advanced 10,000 yuan before and borrowed some from relatives. He also went to provincial hospitals and municipal hospitals to serve the person who was hit by him. The little girl's mother went to the market town to take her to school, and she had to pay rent, food, and use, which was also a big expense. Fortunately, she found a job in a courier store, maybe 1 month's salary, at least a little income, and she can receive a baby. The child's grandmother had to take care of her husband at home and do farm work.

More than 100,000 yuan, for a rural family is simply an astronomical amount, the old people in the family are still sick, and when they encounter this loss of money, they think of that sentence: hemp rope is broken in detail, and bad luck is looking for miserable people. But can you give up? Life doesn't have to go on, it's hard and tiring, 5 years, 10 years or even 20 years, and one day you will be able to get through it. Many people's lives are rarely smooth, don't think that if you suffer a lot, God will give you sweetness. Good hope is to have it, and if there is no hope, life will not be able to go on. In the face of difficulties and unsatisfactory, we can only move forward with a heavy load, take these unpleasant things as normal, accept them, face them, and eventually solve them!

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