The father-in-law picked up the bench and smashed it at his daughter-in-law: I will pay if I smash it! Your son is angry, you can't afford to pay
Sister Li's father-in-law has a short temperament and likes to do things when he doesn't agree.
Before the Chinese New Year, several sisters-in-law and sisters-in-law came to their parents' house to give gifts. Although Sister Li did not live with her parents-in-law, when a guest arrived, she and her husband would naturally go to assist her in-laws in entertaining her. After everyone greeted, the men continued to drink tea and chat, while Sister Li was busy with her mother-in-law and sisters-in-law, preparing two tables of hearty meals for everyone. At lunchtime, everyone sat in separate halls, with one table for men and one table for women and children.
After the meal, everyone started chatting again. During the conversation, for some reason, Sister Li began to accuse her mother-in-law of various shortcomings in public, saying that she had a chaotic style of doing things and was unreliable. Sister Li is eloquent and good at arguing, while her clumsy mother-in-law is no opponent at all.
The father-in-law was drinking on the sidelines, keeping an eye on the dispute here. He listened to it clearly, and saw that his wife couldn't argue with his daughter-in-law, so he joined the battle. Sister Li was not timid towards her father-in-law at all, and continued to fight with reason. However, Sister Li's father-in-law was obviously unsympathetic, and he couldn't quarrel with his daughter-in-law, so in front of a room of juniors, he picked up a stool and threw it at his daughter-in-law.
The whole room was startled, Sister Li didn't expect her father-in-law to do it, so frightened that she didn't know how to dodge it for a moment, and saw that the stool was about to fall on her head. Fortunately, the sister-in-law's husband reacted quickly, stood up and blocked it with his arm, and then there was a "click", and the little brother-in-law screamed in pain, and his arm instantly swollen. Everyone was caught off guard, and the husband of the second sister-in-law hurriedly drove the little brother-in-law to the hospital, and others followed. Only Sister Li's husband was left there to blame her father: What kind of reputation are you doing? Do you have to do something for the New Year? You are also responsible for smashing your daughter-in-law with a stool and smashing someone? Dad said confidently: If you lose, you will lose! It's a big deal, I'll take out the coffin book and find you a sensible daughter-in-law. The son roared angrily and said: I'm afraid you can't afford to pay!
The eldest sister hurriedly persuaded her younger brother and daughter-in-law to leave: "Don't you see that your father has drunk too much?" Let's go back and rest first, I'll go and comfort my father. Sister Li was also frightened by the sudden situation, and hurriedly pulled her husband away.
On the side, the eldest sister was persuading the old father: "Is there anything that can't be discussed?" Quarrels are the norm in the family, how can you let your father-in-law beat your daughter-in-law? It is not good for your face to spread this kind of thing. You're doing it too impulsively. The old father stubbornly stiffened his neck and said: "You don't understand, this brother and daughter-in-law always bully your mother, you don't care, if I don't support your mother, who will support her?" ”
It turned out that Sister Li had always been domineering at home, and after being at the mercy of her husband, she tried to manipulate her in-laws, and often humiliated her mother-in-law with words, because her mother-in-law's mouth was unfavorable. She even often tries to take advantage of some small advantages, blatantly or privately taking her in-laws' belongings. Of course, the mother-in-law is unwilling to let her daughter-in-law take advantage of her, but she can only swallow her anger in the face of her daughter-in-law's quarrel. Therefore, Sister Li's father-in-law had already accumulated a lot of resentment, and this time he broke out while the wine was strong.
Alas! No matter what happens, you should communicate well, how can you do it? You even smashed people with a stool, what if you broke it? "Humph! If she is smashed, she will recuperate, and it doesn't matter if I am stoned to death and I fight for her life! ”
The eldest daughter listened to her father's words and was speechless: "You are so old, you still want to die?" Let's be honest, your life really isn't worth risking for your daughter-in-law! You are in your 70s, and it is normal for you to die at this age, but your younger sibling is still so young, if your impulse causes her to die, what will happen to your son? How can your grandchildren not hate you for the rest of their lives? At this age, you can't think things through yet, what's the point of being so short-tempered! The old man was criticized by his daughter and was silent, although he was impatient, he was reluctant to blame his daughter. Moreover, he himself realized that the impulse to drink just now could bring irreparable damage to the family. He was also worried about his little son-in-law's injury.
The eldest daughter noticed the old father's silence and understood that he was guilty, so she persuaded him a few more words: "There is only one son in our family, and everything in the future belongs to the son and daughter-in-law." Let her take whatever she wants. After all, there will be no shortage of food and drink in your house, and she can be regarded as a communication between family members. ”
Sister Li's father-in-law no longer spoke, but could only acquiesce to his daughter's point of view, and decided to remain silent in the future to avoid more disputes. That's when the daughter left.
Afterwards, Sister Li and her husband went to visit her sister-in-law's husband with gifts and learned that he needed time to heal from his fracture. Fortunately, it is approaching the end of the year, and there is not much work, otherwise it may cause more trouble to the sister-in-law.
Later, Sister Li gradually learned to avoid messing with her parents-in-law, and she no longer took their things at will. The sister-in-law's advice was very pertinent, and she decided not to rush to get all the items of her in-laws for the time being. The father-in-law and mother-in-law no longer deliberately troubled their daughters-in-law, and everyone gradually got along in a plain way, at least in the eyes of outsiders.
Summary: The whole thing went too far, especially at this time of the Chinese New Year, which really made people feel blocked! As a daughter-in-law, you should treat your in-laws with more respect and less gossip. As a father-in-law and mother-in-law, you should be more generous, although the daughter-in-law is an outsider, but after all, she is the wife of her son and the mother of her grandson.