Ding Yizhou couldn't sleep in the middle of the night, opened the QQ space, and found that Lai Min, a female classmate in elementary school, was suffering from a rare genetic disease, lost confidence in life, and even had thoughts of suicide.
He decided to take action and help Lai Min out of his predicament.
After Ding Yizhou saw Lai Min's dynamics, his mood was touched. He was deeply saddened by the news of his former classmate's serious illness, and he hoped to convince Lai Min to let her see a little more away.
So, the two had an in-depth conversation that night. In the end, Ding Yizhou's words deeply touched Lai Min: "Instead of being stuck at home and waiting for death, it is better to go out and see the world!" ”
This sentence not only changed Lai Min's mentality, but also changed the trajectory of Ding Yizhou's life. Since then, the love story between him and Lai Min has unfolded like this!
1.Ding Yizhou and Lai Min, who have become popular on the Internet, have intersected since elementary school. Their story is full of setbacks and difficulties, but their love has withstood the test.
The love story of Ding Yizhou and Lai Min began at the age when their love first opened, and their acquaintance originated from their identity as classmates in elementary school. Although the gap between the two families has brought about a reduction in intersections, their emotions are getting deeper and deeper.
Ding Yizhou's childhood life was full of pain and trouble, and the divorce of his parents made him spend his childhood in quarrels and crying. This family environment had an impact on his personality, he became introverted, sensitive, and always felt rejected by others.
Due to his introverted nature, many of his classmates bullied him, making him stand out in the class and become an object of isolation. However, this did not change the kindness and sincerity of his heart.
Ding Yizhou and Lai Min, two people with diametrically opposite personalities. Ding Yizhou is always alone, while Lai Min is a girl full of sunshine. Her family is harmonious, and her parents love her.
Under their influence, Lai Min became a happy, enthusiastic child, good at getting along with people, with excellent grades, often at the top. Maybe it's because Lai Min's aura is too strong, which makes the young Ding Yizhou feel inferior.
However, it wasn't long before the teacher discovered that they had complementary personalities, so they were placed at the same table and their first meeting began.
Lai Min and Ding Yizhou's time at the same table made her an important person in his life. Ding Yizhou gradually became more cheerful under her guidance, and his feelings for Lai Min were slowly growing.
Lai Min's preferences became the focus of his attention, and he expressed his gratitude to her in his own way. Although he was too young to describe this feeling, this emotion was deeply rooted in his heart.
Ding Yizhou and Lai Min weaved countless memories when they were young, and by chance, Ding Yizhou heard the word "love", and he realized that he might have deep feelings for Lai Min.
Time flies, and Ding Yizhou's relationship with Lai Min is about to come to an end, because Lai Min's grades have always been excellent, so she chose the local key middle school, and Ding Yizhou entered the ordinary school.
Since then, Ding Yizhou's contact with Lai Min has gradually decreased, and he feels that there seems to be a gap between the two, and there is no longer a common topic.
Lai Min and Ding Yizhou, originally two people who were worlds apart, Lai Min had excellent grades and was admitted to a key university, Ding Yizhou had to drop out of school and enter the society due to poor grades and poor family conditions, and worked as an apprentice in a barber shop.
However, the wonderful thing about fate is that they met again soon after, and since then they have become important people in each other's lives, going through the ups and downs of life together.
Ding Yizhou looked at Lai Min's circle of friends and felt deeply uneasy. Although he has been working for many years and his personality has become more mature and stable, he still can't help but be anxious when he sees the news that Lai Min is in trouble.
He couldn't sleep all night, and finally chose to turn on his phone to check everyone's dynamics. To his surprise, Lai Min's news appeared in the first article, and the content made him even more nervous.
Lai Min recently suddenly fainted on the side of the road and was taken to the hospital for examination. As a result, she was diagnosed with a rare disease known as "penguin disease", medically known as hereditary ataxia.
This disease causes the cerebellum to gradually shrink, to become wobbly when walking, to gradually degrade physical functions, and eventually to be unable to speak.
Lai Min's disease is easy to inherit, and it is difficult to diagnose it**. After learning of her illness, it was like a bolt from the blue, so that her youth faced the tragic fate of gradually losing her ability to move, and finally being killed by the disease.
How could such a result not be heartbreaking and make Lai Min fall into despair. After being unable to sleep for many days, she posted a dynamic in the space, revealing the idea of suicide.
After reading the news, Lai Min Ding Yizhou felt ripples in his heart, and he suddenly recalled the happy time he spent with Lai Min in elementary school. As soon as he thought of those past memories, Ding Yizhou was extremely sure that he had a deep crush on Lai Min when he was in elementary school, and she was his first love!
Therefore, Ding Yizhou did not hesitate to go to Lai Min, he hoped that under his persuasion, the other party could let go of the idea of suicide and face the difficulties of life positively and optimistically!
Ding Yizhou and Lai Min, two people who have not seen each other for more than ten years, unexpectedly crossed paths again after Lai Min sent out the news. Lai Min was very moved, she didn't expect that the first person to comfort her turned out to be her primary school classmate Ding Yizhou.
As a girl, Lai Min couldn't bear too much pressure, so under Ding Yizhou's persuasion, she poured out all her pain.
Ding Yizhou listened to Lai Min tell her story, and although she excelled in her studies and all aspects, she was also under tremendous pressure from her parents, teachers and others.
Five years ago, Lai Min's father died in a car accident, and her mother also died due to excessive grief, and the huge changes in the family brought her a huge psychological impact. Now, she is sick again, and this sense of helplessness and despair makes her deeply feel the unfairness of fate, why did all the misfortunes befall her?
Ding Yizhou felt sorry for Lai Min's experience, and always encouraged her to laugh at life, and decided to do something for her. He was by Lai Min's side, guarding her and preventing her from doing stupid things.
He also paid out of his own pocket and took Lai Min to a big hospital for examination. The doctor told her that she had more than ten years to live, which made Ding Yizhou happy. However, Lai Min was still under a lot of pressure and even suffered from depression.
In order to help her relieve stress, Ding Yizhou began to look for effective ways to decompress.
Ding Yizhou spent a lot of thought and money to help Lai Min relieve stress. Although Lai Min tried many methods, none of them could improve her stress situation. Eventually, Ding Yizhou thought that traveling could help relieve stress, so he messaged Laimin: "Instead of waiting at home and dying, it's better to go out for a walk." ”
This sentence deeply touched Lai Min, and she realized that her life was coming to an end and she should do something meaningful to make her life more meaningful.
However, Laimin's physical condition did not allow her to travel on her own, which made her very distressed. Fortunately, Ding Yizhou offered to accompany Lai Min on a trip, and he said to Lai Min: "Because I like you, I am willing to accompany you." ”
This made Lai Min very warm and grateful, and she decided to accept Ding Yizhou's invitation to go on a trip together.
Ding Yizhou's words made Lai Min a little overwhelmed, she was worried that Ding Yizhou was just talking, or she would regret it in the future, so she didn't agree. But Ding Yizhou was sincere, he immediately resigned and bought a bicycle to express his determination to break the boat.
After seeing what Ding Yizhou did, Lai Min was finally relieved, and they decided to drop everything and have a trip that they said would go!
Lai Min and Ding Yizhou embarked on a unique trip in January 2015. This trip is very meaningful to Ding Yizhou, because he sees it as his first gift to his girlfriend.
To make the trip even more special, he carefully planned a "heart-shaped" route.
Ding Yizhou and Lai Min decided to take the last 200 yuan and travel to China on a poor basis. When Lai Min asked what to do if there was no money on the road, Ding Yizhou said without hesitation: "Then let's work there, settle down for a while, and then move on!" ”
In order to make Lai Min's trip more convenient, Ding Yizhou also modified the bicycle and connected it to his girlfriend's wheelchair at the back. In addition to his girlfriend, he also brought his girlfriend's dog "Bao".
This is how this romantic trip began. They first went to Nanning, the provincial capital, and regarded it as the tip of their hearts. However, the long journey to Nanning, coupled with Ding Yizhou's physical exhaustion, took them a full fifteen days to reach their destination.
Although Ding Yizhou and Lai Min have experienced a long journey, after arriving at their destination, they are full of expectations for the next journey. They took firm steps and walked all the way along the beautiful Kunming.
Lai Min looked at the scenery on the side of the road and couldn't help but sing, which made Ding Yizhou feel very excited. When they arrived in Kunming, they were intoxicated by the sea of flowers, and Lai Min's face showed a smile that he had not seen for a long time.
After touring the beauty of Kunming, they continued north, and their next destination was Lhasa, where there were many Tibetan friends. They are looking forward to having an unforgettable trip there.
At a bonfire in Tibetan areas, Lai Min and Ding Yizhou spent quality time with their enthusiastic Tibetan friends. They were invited to a bonfire, where they sat around it, sipped local wines, and listened to the songs of their Tibetan friends.
Catalyzed by alcohol, Ding Yizhou proposed to Lai Min on this beautiful night, a scene that made the friends around him excited, and they shared the couple's story on the Internet, sending them their most sincere wishes.
The story of the two touched countless netizens, and they sighed: The power of love once again makes us believe in beauty!
Ding Yizhou and Lai Min felt unprecedented fun and intimacy during their post-proposal trip. As long as the two are together, Ding Yizhou doesn't feel tired, as if he has the whole world.
Lai Min also gradually believed that the man in front of him was worth entrusting for life. Although they encountered wind and rain during the journey, they supported each other and got through it together. No matter how small the world in the tent is, it is enough for them to be free; Even if they fall into a ravine and are scarred, their hearts are still connected; Even if Lai Min suddenly fell ill on the road and almost lost his life, Ding Yizhou always insisted on never giving up.
Their love, like this trip, is full of challenges and adventures, but more importantly, it is the companionship and support of each other, which together create countless wonderful memories.
After Ding Yizhou and Lai Min traveled, Ding Yizhou felt extremely remorseful and began to question the decision to travel this time. However, after Lai Min woke up, she seemed to sense Ding Yizhou's doubts and immediately affirmed the choice he made.
Lai Min's affirmation made Ding Yizhou more convinced of his decision, and he was full of happiness no matter what he did with his beloved.
The travel stories of Ding Yizhou and Lai Min have continued to expand with their footprints, attracting more and more followers. In Xining, Xi'an, Zhengzhou and other places, wherever they go, they can always gain the support of a large number of fans.
These fans selflessly waited for them at their destination and gave the couple the most intimate help. On the Internet, their story has sparked heated discussions, and countless people have been moved by their sincere feelings and called them "heart-to-heart couples".
Lai Min is deeply loved and supported by netizens, and Ding Yizhou is full of gratitude. He said that he will complete the journey with his wife and enter the palace of marriage as soon as possible. However, it is not easy to enter into marriage, and Ding Yizhou still needs to undergo the test of his mother.
The secret of a happy married life may lie in the two-person journey of Ding Yizhou and Lai Min. However, this decision was strongly opposed by Ding Yizhou's mother. The mother's married life was full of misfortunes, so she didn't want her son to repeat it.
However, no matter how his mother rejected Lai Min, Ding Yizhou always insisted on his decision and resolutely chose to travel with her. Although the mother did not provide any support, she hoped that her son would be able to give up.
However, this iron-hearted couple chose to go on firmly.
At the beginning of 2017, Lai Min and Ding Yizhou came to the beautiful land of Xinjiang. However, in the midst of this wonderful journey, Lai Min suddenly became pregnant, and the news took them both by surprise.
So, they immediately rushed to the local hospital for a physical examination and decided to put the trip on hold for the time being. While waiting for the results of the examination, Ding Yizhou even named the child "Ding Luyao", implying that their life will be full of hardships and challenges.
However, the reality is often the opposite of the ideal, and the results of the hospital test showed that their child also had "penguin disease", so they finally chose to induce labor, ending the unexpected journey.
At the invitation of the program, they came to Beijing and participated in the recording of "Reader". Lai Min recited the poems she wrote during the trip, and many viewers and readers were moved by the deep affection between Lai Min and Ding Yizhou after this episode of the show and became their fans.
Since its appearance on CCTV, the number of fans of "Heartfelt Couple" has continued to grow, and a large number of netizens have expressed their support for the two, which has become louder and louder, and even attracted the attention of Ding Yizhou's mother.
After Ding Yizhou's trip, his mother refused to contact her son out of anger. However, neighbors and netizens came to Ding Yizhou's house after the ** show to persuade his mother to fulfill the couple.
At this time, a director was deeply moved by their story and decided to make it into a TV series "If I Didn't Meet You". The drama has won many awards, has been highly praised by a wide audience, and the content is very touching.
The TV series "Ding Yizhou" is deeply loved by Ding's mother, and after seeing the story of her son and Lai Min, she finally let go of her knot, took the initiative to call her son, and agreed that they would be together.
This news made Ding Yizhou cry with excitement, and the love between him and Lai Min finally had a happy ending. On July 8, 2019, Ding Yizhou and Lai Min received their marriage certificate as they wished, and in order to celebrate this special moment, they also posted their wedding photos on Weibo, which received the blessings of many netizens.
The story of Lai Min and Ding Yizhou is like a legend, but the firewood, rice, oil and salt in their lives often need to be faced. How to support his family has become a problem that Ding Yizhou urgently needs to solve.
Although he had many job opportunities, none of them were what he wanted. After thinking about it, Ding Yizhou decided to sell his house in Liuzhou and relocate his family to Litang, Sichuan, where he opened an inn called "Luyao Inn".
They planted their yard with flowers and plants, and this inn, which can accommodate thirty people, has become their main economy.
The owner of Luyao Inn originally thought that their small inn would not be too lively, but unexpectedly, their story attracted widespread attention on the Internet, and many Weibo netizens made a special trip to see the truth.
As a result, the inn has become a local Internet celebrity, with a daily occupancy rate of up to 80%. Although their lives are on track, there is still an unhealed scar in their hearts - the problem of children.
Ding Yizhou and Lai Min's condition is very hereditary, and Lai Min's life expectancy may not be long after giving birth. Therefore, Ding Yizhou decided not to have children for life, but Lai Min felt deeply guilty about it.
This became a sore spot in their hearts. In 2019, shortly after receiving the certificate, Ding Yizhou found out that Lai Min was pregnant. They quarreled over this matter, because Ding Yizhou didn't want Lai Min to risk his life to give birth.
Lai Min and Ding Yizhou, Lai Min decided to insist on giving birth to a child for her husband and realize her wish. On December 3, 2019, Lai Min successfully gave birth to a lovely baby girl, named Bubu (nickname), the child is in good health, Lai Min's heart is on the ground, and the child is the continuation of life.
However, the cost of childbirth is huge, and after Lai Min gave birth, Ding Yizhou found that her speech began to be slurred, and sometimes she was unable to express herself.
Lai Min and his child Ding Yizhou's hearts were full of grief, and his wife was suffering unimaginably as he could only watch helplessly. The arrival of their daughter made them responsible, and they promised: "We will not just walk away like before!" ”
Originally, they planned to make up the wedding for their daughter's 100-day birthday, but the sudden new crown epidemic disrupted their plans. The wedding had to be postponed, and it was not until May 18, 2020, that they held a simple wedding on a ship in Nanning, Guangxi.
Lai Min and Ding Yizhou's activities that day were only attended by close relatives, friends and fans, and Lai Min realized his wish to wear a wedding dress under the witness of everyone and fulfilled a dream in his life.
Due to the huge impact of the epidemic, they no longer rely on the operation of the inn, but focus on the sales and webcast of Guangxi's specialties, and at the same time, Lai Min also signed a body donation agreement, hoping to make more contributions to the society.
Now, Ding Yizhou often shares their daily life on Weibo, and on May 7, 2022, he also posted a ** that planted 999 roses for his wife in the courtyard of the inn.
The love story between Ding Yizhou and Lai Min is touching, however, Lai Min's physical condition is worrying. Today, Lai Min needs to be bedridden all year round, and he can't even speak.
Despite this, their dream of traveling the world with their daughter, especially the Great Migration to Africa, remains alive. Lai Min is undoubtedly very lucky, she met the true love of her life, and the person who loves her the most.
If it weren't for Ding Yizhou, her life might have come to an end in 2014.
Lai Min and Ding Yizhou, a husband and wife, because of the company of his wife, Ding Yizhou's life is getting better and better, and he is very grateful for his wife's guidance. He said: "Life can be very simple, and you don't need to think too complicated, just face it bravely with the people who love you." ”
Love is the most powerful force in the world, and I believe that this couple will be happier and happier under the nourishment of love, and also trust that Min's body will one day regain health. Expect a miracle!