Aunt Xue, a widow, took her children into the capital and began her thereRongguo Mansionnew life. She didn't just come to visit relatives and send off her daughterDraft, settle accounts, but also to get rid of the burden and pressure of life. InFeudal societyThe life of a widow is often worrying, but Aunt Xue relies on Jia Zhenghe with her wisdom and social skillsRongguo Mansionof resources, successfully realized the dependence on their own lives. However, how did Aunt Xue spend her days as a widow? Who is with her?
1. Correspondence of relatives
As a widow with a large family, Aunt Xue's life is inseparable from the care and visits of relatives. These relatives often come to visit her to discuss family affairs and share family fun. After all, the Xue family faced many problems and challenges when they first arrived in Kyoto, and the guidance and assistance of relatives were crucial to Aunt Xue.
Expanding: Some relatives will not only help Aunt Xue solve practical problems, but also bring the warmth and emotional sustenance of the family. They will get together to drink tea and laugh while sharing the joys and sorrows of each other's lives. This bond of family affection made Aunt Xue feel warm and relieved.
2. The old buddy at home
The Xue family is a big family, and they have been in business for a long time, so there must be a group of old men in the family who are experienced. During Aunt Xue's widowhood, these old guys played an important supporting role. They are by her side, assisting her with daily tasks and keeping the family running smoothly.
Expanding: These old fellows have worked with Aunt Xue's husband for many years in the past, and they have established a deep relationship with each otherFriendship。When Aunt Xue faced difficulties alone, they did not hesitate to stand by her side and take on the responsibility of the family. They worked together with Aunt Xue to face the challenges of life and became their loyal companions.
3. Male slaves in the room
As a widowed noblewoman, Aunt Xue naturally needed some male servants to serve her. These male slaves were not simple servants, they played an important role in daily life, taking care of some foreign affairs in place of Aunt Xue, and sometimes even playing the role of husbands.
Expanding: These male slaves are always by Aunt Xue's side, not only providing her with the convenience of life, but also acting as her spiritual supporters. They are considerate and always pay attention to Aunt Xue's needs to create a comfortable living environment for her. They were an indispensable presence in her life and one of her closest companions during her widowhood.
Although Aunt Xue has been widowed for many years, it can be seen from the details of her life that she maintains close contact with men. This connection was not just out of necessity, but also reflected Aunt Xue's open personality and timeSocialof enlightenedness.
Expanding: Aunt Xue is a sociable person, and she has a wealth of social experience before marrying into Jiafu. Her family has a long reputation in business and has business contacts in various cities, which has given her a deep understanding of the human world. At the same time, the era in which she lived was also a relatively open eraSocialThe prosperity of the economy has enabled people to break down class barriers and strive for upward mobility. This open atmosphere allowed Aunt Xue to break free from the feudal moral shackles and maintain an intimate connection with the men.
Aunt Xue, as a widow who has been widowed for many years, is accompanied not only by the men of her relatives' families, but also by the old men in the family and the male slaves in the companion room. They stayed by Aunt Xue's side during her widowhood and provided her with material and moral support. The presence of these men not only lightens Aunt Xue's burden, but also adds warmth and interest to her life. At the same time, Aunt Xue's close connection with men also reflects her open-mindedness and the open-mindedness of the times in which she lived.
It is worth mentioning that ".Dream of Red Mansionsdoes not specifically describe the emotional relationship between Aunt Xue and men, and can only be inferred from the details of her interactions with men. However, this does not prevent us from making reasonable speculations about Aunt Xue's life. As long as we are on itA detailed analysis of the characters and plot in can reveal more truths hidden between the lines.