I think that the most lethal and crushing person is the kind of person who suddenly declares that he has done something.
At a time when most people were going through their normal lives, I suddenly heard three shocking news.
One is that a very familiar friend, who usually earns more than 100,000 yuan a year, suddenly made a few million last year because of doing a very famous Chinese herbal medicine business in our hometown (the fellow said that he made millions, and he only admitted that he made more than 2 million).
The other is that there is a writer friend who has always said that he is an unemployed vagrant, chatting, and suddenly said that his ** of more than 20,000 words sold more than 1 million film and television copyright fees.
The most amazing thing is a big brother in his 50s, who really looks like a potato - absolutely not exaggerated, it is the kind of person who wants to call him a little potato when he looks at him, and he also laughs at himself for a little potato, we haven't seen each other for three years, and the circle of friends does not send messages, two days ago, I cleaned up my WeChat friends, thinking that he had deactivated this *** out of politeness to send a message, he said that he was married for the second time, gave birth to a son, and now he is busy every day, and his wife is more than 10 years younger than him.
Oh my God, how can you all surprise people so much?
I suddenly remembered that I was crushed psychologically before, a colleague of mine, usually tepid, I can't see how smart I am, and I usually pick it up badly - always bring food from home to the company to eat. One day, he brought his wife and children to the company to attend the annual meeting, and we learned that he was the son-in-law of Shenzhen, that is, his wife is a native of Shenzhen, and there are many houses that collect rent, and the kind that dividends are distributed in the village every year, do you know how much impact this has on us? No less than an atomic bomb by your side**.
These ruthless people are really admirable, they are not noisy or public, they suddenly get married, suddenly buy a house, and suddenly get rich (or they are already rich, but they usually don't make people see how rich they are), he doesn't analyze himself with others, and he doesn't care what others think of him, he just goes to the goal.
Shocked, I analyzed their characteristics.
First of all, they know how to keep a low profile! It's not like some people, like me, who bluff and show off their plans and goals everywhere. But these people are like underground workers, quietly working hard, and suddenly a big explosion for everyone.
They know how to be patient, move forward slowly and steadily, and not be carried away by impetuousness and impatience.
They know how to persevere, and they will not back down because of difficulties, but silently overcome one challenge after another. It's like playing a game, constantly leveling up to fight monsters, and finally clearing the level!
So, I want to learn from these silent people who do great things, and maybe one day, I will become one of them!
Today is the last day of 2023, the good, the bad, the happy, the bad, the worried, the separated, all in the past, let me say the most sincere, old-fashioned, and powerful words to myself and to you: Tomorrow is the new year! I wish us good luck in 2024, all our wishes come true, and all the best.