Do you want to stay away from "involution" and "internal friction"? Strive to be a "steady" person from today? Then open this book "Don't be in a hurry, be a person with a stable core".
There are only two volumes of the book, so it is natural to read "unhurried", in fact, I am a little puzzled why "work" is put before "life" in the book? But when I saw the title, it was clear instantly, because "not panic" was in front and "not busy" was in the back, so I could only roll one "work without panic".
In today's "roll up", the workplace is undoubtedly the hardest hit area, and I want to take it out and talk about it, which can really help the sisters who are in dire straits. The author is Lin Guizhi, the former chief copywriter of Ogilvy and a well-known advertising creative, who not only has the insight of the first and foremost, but also the golden sentences on the paper and the design of the whole book.
How to "not panic" about work? She gave two words: "Li" and "Specialized".
What is the essence of "panic"? Disturbed? Anxiety? Gain or loss? Overcautious? These are all appearances, the root of which lies in the uncertainty of whether the work in front of you can be competent, and the lack of confidence in your own ability, so that only if you can stand on your own can you maintain a calm and leisurely workplace image. As the saying goes, "the most beautiful place is in the deepest sea", "If you want to achieve something in your own field, you can only dive." "Work while working, rest when resting".
The author combines his own work experience and what he has seen and felt, and the words he said lightly have a weight worth pondering to us. There is a sentence in the book that can cure all complaints in the workplace, "How to be without complaints?" Get paid more than you give. Is it reasonable to think about it? If you don't want to continue to be a resentful woman in the workplace, you can either practice your skills and find another job, or close your mouth and balance your mind, after all, there are too many words to be angry, let alone frustrated?
Regarding "life is not busy", the author gives a lot of keywords, "slow", "feeling", "thorough", "understanding", and "follow".
Busyness seems to be becoming more and more the norm for us, and no matter what we do, it seems to be fighting for speed. There's an interesting suggestion in the book: focus on a raisin. Sisters, you might as well try, the root of the acceleration in action is the inner tension and entanglement, what is the tension? The future is uncertain! Tangled with what? The choice is uncertain! In fact, in the second half of life, each of us must constantly adapt to the gap between reality and expectations, and be prepared for the unexpected. When everything can be faced calmly from the depths of the heart, what is there to sleep and eat?
May each of us be able to work without panic, live without busyness, and not make the years empty.