In recent years, the word "emotional intelligence" has appeared more and more frequently in front of our eyes, and the so-called emotional intelligence refers to the quality of people in terms of emotion, will, and tolerance to setbacks. It can be said that there is no obvious innate difference in emotional intelligence between people, and it is more closely related to the cultivation of nurture.
For modern people, emotional intelligence is the basic ability to survive, why do you say that? To put it simply, the basic survival capacity of a person refers to a person's ability to assume the basic responsibilities of his or her own life. Narrowly speaking, a person's basic ability to survive is to have basic skills, and then use them to ensure that he and his family members are fed, clothed, sheltered, and transported. Specifically, a person's basic responsibility is not only to solve his own basic problems of food, clothing, housing and transportation, but also to assume the responsibility of supporting his parents, ensuring that his spouse has a good living and that his children receive their due education. Only when people have the ability to assume their own basic responsibilities can they take on more social responsibilities and pursue their dreams!
If people want to take on the basic responsibilities of their own lives, they must have the corresponding ability, and this ability is the basic ability of life. So, what exactly are the basic abilities of life? People are the sum of various social relations, and people must live in the "society", so maintaining a harmonious relationship with the people around them is the ability that everyone must have, which is the "basic survival ability" of life.