Unexpectedly, Wu Jing, a much-loved wife in the entertainment industry, will also face a situation where her reputation is not as good as before.
Recently, some netizens dug up clips of variety shows that he and Xie Nan once participated in, questioning his machismo, disrespect for his wife and disgust for his daughter.
Therefore, the term "Wu Jing-style man" was devalued, and it appeared on the hot search list.
Some netizens speculated that the couple's marital relationship may be in jeopardy, and some netizens urgently called on Xie Nan to divorce as soon as possible to save his life.
Seeing Wu Jing's "favorite wife and personality collapse", Xie Nan, who had been silent for most of the month, finally stood up and responded.
Our lives are not simply black and white, and despite our deep love for each other, there can be disputes at the right time. ”
The conclusion is: divorce will not happen anyway.
How did Wu Jing and Xie Nan go from being a popular model couple to saying goodbye publicly on the Internet and getting to where they are now?
To understand this, we need to go back to the marriage show "Happiness Trio" that the two couples participated in three years ago.
The most controversial scene is that after Wu Jing cooked the noodles, he didn't call Xie Nan and started to enjoy them alone.
The latter looked taken aback and complained softly, but Wu Jing didn't seem to hear it, didn't give any feedback, and just ate the noodles intently.
Xie Nan's mood gradually became unpleasant, and when she walked into the kitchen, a suffocating conversation broke out between the two.
Wu Jing asked, "Do you want to taste it?" ”
Xie Nan said: "I will definitely eat it." ”
Wu Jing said: "I didn't tell you that you don't want to eat, I suggest you try it first." ”
Now that things have developed to this point, Xie Nan did not hesitate to clearly express his dissatisfaction and grievances:
When you're done cooking, you should call me and tell my daughter-in-law that I can enjoy it together. ”
But Wu Jing asked rhetorically, "Haven't you noticed?" "There's no doubt that it's like adding fuel to the fire.
Before the matter was over, Xie Nan explained that as soon as she looked up, she saw that he had already eaten the food, and Wu Jing blamed Xie Nan in turn:
Are you blaming me? You just chose me and didn't call you. ”
The two of them were each angry because of the argument, and they didn't even finish their meal.
Wu Jing left Xie Nan behind, walked up the stairs alone, and then threw the towel vigorously on the sink to release his emotions.
In this show, this has happened more than once.
In a follow-up dinner date, it was supposed to be a great opportunity for couples to communicate, but unexpectedly, Xie Nan kept saying his words, and Wu Jing did not give any feedback.
When Xie Nan proposed, "Can't we sit down and chat?", Wu Jing showed obvious sensitivity and resistance:
I never expected you to have the urge to chat all of a sudden, so you'd better not express it in this rhetorical way. ”
Reading this, I have to say that Wu Jing is a machismo and is not good at communication, but when netizens mentioned his performance in other variety shows by the way, they really couldn't help but attack him together.
For example, when the couple was playing a game to test their tacit understanding, they heard Xie Nan say, "No, you're too slow," and Wu Jing immediately showed a displeased expression.
After losing the next few games, he seized the opportunity to criticize Xie Nan's poor cooperation.
In the end, he chose to give up the game directly, which made Xie Nan very sad and shed tears.
I still remember that time, when Wu Jing was making large intestines, Xie Nan told him to "cook a little more to avoid being eaten by mistake".
Upon hearing the news, Wu Jing immediately became very angry, and he angrily rebuked her and warned her not to babble all day long.
Xie Nan felt extremely unfair, tears slipped from the corners of her eyes, but she still quickly adjusted her emotions and began to reflect on herself:
Perhaps because my performance was not good enough, Mr. Wu couldn't stand women's tears the most. ”
Considering Wu Jing's own remarks about some straight male cancers, it does make people's blood pressure rise sharply.
Actually, I've been on her many shows and haven't felt much for her. ”
I often have a cold look on my daughter-in-law. ”
Wu Jing also mentions an example from earlier years: Xie Nan tried on clothes for him, but he didn't want to wear them, so he pushed hard and deliberately damaged the clothes.
Connecting the clips of these variety shows seems to give everyone a new understanding of Wu Jing.
Straight man with big mood swings, tendency to use cold violence, lack of respect for his wife, and too narcissism.
In their 10-year marriage, what the audience has experienced is that the woman tries to accommodate as much as possible, while the man completely fails to take into account her feelings and needs.
As more people get involved, everyone is speculating about whether Wu Jing and his wife's marriage is happy, and it is generally believed that Wu Jing does not love his wife and even has a tendency to domestic violence.
Up to now, the image of Wu Jing's "favorite wife" once created for the public has completely collapsed.
In the face of Wu Jing's ** changes, do you feel that this is a very familiar phenomenon?
Now he is also the "Zhou Zhouwei in Zhu Dan's mouth".
Step theory", only when his wife is pregnant, he cooks for her for the first time, and openly belittles his wife's acting skills.
In the past few years, Zhou Yiwei has been criticized by the whole network for his intimate interaction with the couple, calling them "PUA masters".
No matter what Zhu Dan says, everyone generally believes that she is not happy in her marriage and is regarded as "a lowly person in love".
It wasn't until three months ago, when the two participated in "Love's School Trip" together, that everyone realized some of the unknown facts behind this marriage and expressed their dissatisfaction.
For example, in the show, although it is Zhu Dan who is in charge, it is obviously Zhou Yiwei who is really busy washing vegetables, washing pots and doing housework.
Initially, he was really wronged because he was criticized for "not working".
For example, before they got married, Zhou Yiwei was already willing to bear a debt of up to 20 million for Zhu Dan, isn't this a manifestation of "love is miserable, but there is a sense of responsibility"?
Seeing this scene, many netizens apologized to Zhou Yiwei and once again praised him as "a perfect man and a good husband who dotes on his wife."
Wu Jing and Xie Nan's current reputation situation is obviously in stark contrast to Zhu Dan's Zhou Yiwei.
Whether praising Zhou Zhou or criticizing Wu Jing, netizens set their evaluation criteria based on the "fragmentary facts" observed so far.
But we forget that the sporadic words we see do not fully represent their married life.
Gigi said this not to whitewash Wu Jing.
He bears a striking resemblance to the traditional fathers we meet in our daily lives, always being too narcissistic and concerned about his own face, and whenever his wife says "no" to him, he becomes very anxious and completely unconcerned about the other person's feelings.
But just because he has these problems, we can't deny him the merits, or overly maliciously guess that he has domestic violence, cheating, or divorce.
Keep in mind that after getting married, you need to hand in your salary card, show off your achievements in front of Xie Nan every day, even if you are lame, you have to accompany her **drama, and you may even drive *** to meet her.
It is precisely because of these unforgettable sweet experiences that everyone was deeply moved and unanimously agreed that Wu Jing is a "good husband who loves brains and is good at internal entertainment".
Hidden behind those controversial ** clips, it often also hides the other side of the truth that netizens ignore.
For example, in Wu Jing's "Happiness Trio", Cue once attended and threw a cold face at Xie Nan, which was his old past.
I want to emphasize that I have learned to reflect deeply and not to get angry with my wife because I am in a low mood.
Although there was a dispute over eating noodles, he still chose to return to the table and communicate calmly with Xie Nan, resolving the conflict between the two sides.
Some netizens said that Xie Nan felt very wronged in her married life, because she said in a certain program that "I will not marry in the next life".
But the truth is, this is just a joke about her deliberately testing the accuracy of the instrument while she is doing a lie detector game.
Xie Nan once mentioned that she and Wu Jingjing have shown surprising tacit understanding and rational thinking when dealing with work and family-related matters.
Only in their respective emotional expressions, neither of them has been able to master how to effectively convey their emotions.
Considering that Xie Nan has the characteristics of a little woman in a relationship, she attaches great importance to the emotional value given by Wu Jing, but Wu Jing is a machismo and does not care too much about Xie Nan's feelings.
For a variety of reasons, they frequently clashed.
Wu Jing's current reputation is not as good as before, could it be that he has really committed an unforgivable crime?
This is not the case. He is still that version, with both romantic love for his wife and the impatient side of straight men.
There is no need for everyone to feel too sorry for Xie Nan.
In response to the controversial Weibo post, she also mentioned her own problem, namely "too much attention to detail and too much attention to detail".
What people are accustomed to imitating is often their current way of thinking.
At the end of the day, most viewers tend to praise good things, and when they find someone with a quality that we desire, they don't hesitate to praise and strive to create an image of God.
Just like Wu Jing in the past, Zhou Zhou Wei now.
Once the illusion of perfection is revealed, it cannot be sustained, so they diligently remove from the altar and move on to the next "perfect" goal, and so on.
Gigi advises that when you eat candy from celebrity couples, don't be too real about your emotions.
Under the seemingly sweet appearance in marriage and love variety shows, it is actually the disputes of chickens and dogs that have become a common phenomenon in married life.
After all, no one is flawless, and similarly, a marriage cannot be flawless.
Even the two people who love the most will inevitably have various frictions and problems in the process of getting along, which requires both parties to invest time and energy to adapt and run in with each other.
At the end of the day, it's like everyone knows the temperature at which they drink water.
Despite the fierce reactions from netizens, Xie Nan still firmly believes that there is a deep relationship between the two and decides to be together forever.
Therefore, instead of pinning the good hopes of marriage on the stars of reality TV, a better way is to concentrate on living your life so that the happy experience will be easier.
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