Marriage in the year of the natal year**: traditional taboo or modern bravery? In-depth interpretation
According to traditional Chinese customs, it is not appropriate to get married in the natal year. According to folklore, in the natal year, if you clash with your zodiac sign, you will have bad luck and loss, so you are considered unfit for marriage. However, in today's era, people no longer have so many superstitions, so many people give up this taboo and decide their marriage according to their actual situation and wishes. The final decision should be made based on each individual's wishes as well as the current situation.
In China, it is not possible to get married in the natal year, but now, many people are not so superstitious, and they can only choose to get married based on their own conditions and personal wishes. If you don't believe in getting married in the natal year, both you and the other person feel that it is a good time to get married in the natal year, and you are free to decide whether to get married or not. However, whether you are married in your natal year or not, you should base it on your financial and emotional situation, as well as the support and affirmation of your family and society.
Chinese marriage customs vary with different regions and ethnicities, but in general there are some commonalities.
Chinese attach great importance to the inheritance and inheritance of the family, so they attach great importance to marriage. The engagement generally takes place before the marriage. Both families sent representatives to give each other gifts as a sign of recognition and good wishes for both families.
When they choose their wedding dates, they are based on the lunar calendar and the auspicious days of the zodiac. Some people also turn to the ancestral gods for help, or find a special soothsayer to choose the auspicious days of the zodiac. The groom prepares gifts and goes to the bride's home with friends and relatives to greet the bride. When the bride receives the bride, the bride will set certain constraints and tests, and the groom will have to go through various tests to show his sincerity and talent.
In the process of getting married, wedding rings are generally exchanged, the bride and groom greet each other, serve tea and pour water, and pass wine to each other. The newlyweds bowed to both parents as a sign of respect and gratitude. During the tea ceremony and cup handing over, the newlyweds offer tea or cup gifts to the elders to express their respect and gratitude to the elderly.
Marriage customs vary from region to region and among ethnic groups, such as making holes, robbing relatives, and worshipping churches. In short, Chinese marriage is a festive and beautiful atmosphere, which reflects the traditional culture of our country.