In "Parents' Love", Ge Meixia has always been an offensive person, she is An Jie's friend, but she went from envy to jealousy towards An Jie, ruined An Jie's marriage, and used tricks to make Ya Fei a stepmother, much like the current "enemy honey". But in fact, when she was with the painter, Ge Meixia not only wanted to destroy An Jie's marriage, but also because she was the one who really liked the painter. 
On the island, An Jie, who is cultured and has seen the world, is already an outlier in itself, and it is also a new world that Ge Meixia can come into contact with. The painter and An Jie are the same kind of people, a person who understands art, at least more romantic than Jiang Defu, just look at him when he goes to see An Jie with a bouquet of flowers. However, in Ouyang Yi's words, An Jie was originally a person with a high vision, and when he was with Jiang Defu later, he was also moved by the other side of Jiang Defu. People like painters, in An Jie's eyes, are not uncommon, and they are not very good. It's just that among the people on the island, the painter asked An Jie to be a model, which can indeed satisfy a woman's vanity. 
But that's all, for An Jie, the weight of a painter is far less than that of Jiang Defu, so after rumors spread on the island, An Jie took the initiative to stay away from the painter. This is An Jie's psychology, but for Ge Meixia, this is not the case. Although An Jie took her to see a lot of things that she had never seen, An Jie was of the same sex and the painter was of the opposite sex, which felt different. At this time, Ge Meixia had long been jealous of An Jie because of An Jie in the eyes of the painter. 
So in the relationship between the two people, she is very radical, and the most classic plot is that An Jie invited her to her home for coffee, but she took the painter to An Jie's house together. It seems that Ge Meixia is using her ignorance to stimulate the relationship between Jiang Defu and An Jie, but in fact, she is breaking An Jie's image in the painter's heart. Why? You see, when she took the painter to An Jie's house, she first gave the painter an intuitive feeling, that is, An Jie was a married woman, and she was unmarried. Such a huge difference can make himself weigh on An Jie, married An Jie, and the painter have almost no possibility, once there is, it is also an improper relationship, and it is not tolerated by the world. 
Secondly, if Jiang Defu encounters a painter in his own home, he will definitely not speak well, so An Jie and Jiang Defu will quarrel in front of the painter. Whether An Jie will be patient with this, or directly quarrel with Jiang Defu, it will not be good for An Jie's image in the painter's heart. As the culprit, as long as Ge Meixia stands there beautifully, she can make a sharp contrast with An Jie. In fact, Ge Meixia also succeeded, when they were drinking coffee, they happened to meet Jiang Defu who came back, and Jiang Defu didn't give him a good face at all. 
And An Jie also lost face in front of outsiders, and after the painter and Ge Meixia left, he not only secretly shed tears, but also avoided Jiang Defu since then. Up to this point, Ge Meixia has actually succeeded, if it weren't for Jiang Defu to get rid of the painter, then Ge Meixia would have a series of moves to improve her image in the painter's heart, and even replace An Jie as the painter's model. It's a pity that in order to make his wife happy, Jiang Defu used a trick to drive away the painter, and left a portrait of An Jie and **, and took it home to reconcile with An Jie. 
Ge Meixia is a bamboo basket for water, otherwise, she would rather follow the painter to the outside world and experience the life in An Jie's mouth than staying on the island. Therefore, Ge Meixia's actions at that time were not simply to break An Jie's marriage, but she also wanted to achieve her own marriage. But having said that, Jiang Defu can be regarded as saving her, just look at the painter using half-ocean and half-earth language to show his understanding of coffee, he is not a person who can live a good life.