My mother-in-law suffered a stroke at the end of November 2023 and was admitted to the hospital with thyroid cancer, and my father-in-law immediately asked me to come back to take care of my mother-in-law without salary, because it was a probationary period, and the company required me to leave my job 3 days in advance, but because it was just a few days, my father-in-law felt that I didn't have the heart to go back to take care of my mother-in-law.
Later, at the end of November, I resigned successfully and went back to take care of my mother-in-law, and my mother-in-law was critically ill for half a month, and my father-in-law was on night duty in the hospital almost every night, and I was on day shift. Half a month later, my mother-in-law's condition stabilized. My father-in-law said that he was too tired at night and wanted to go out for 3 days to soak in the hot springs, I discussed with my husband about the duty time, but because my husband did his own small business, I asked him to come over early, I wanted to be worth 2 days and 2 nights A little unbearable, somehow my husband asked my brother to take care of him, and he quarreled with him on the spot.
Later, my father-in-law asked us to take turns with him at night on the night shift, we began to take turns on the night shift, in December the hospital was seriously A, we took turns to get a flu, my father-in-law went back to rest during the A-flu, I took care of my mother-in-law in the hospital for 5 days and 4 nights, I had a fever of 37-38 degrees every day, my mother-in-law couldn't eat by herself, couldn't move, lit water every day to eat, turned over, changed diapers, and helped her up to move and massage, lift her in a wheelchair, I was so tired, let my husband find my father-in-law to come over for a day, my husband did not agree at that time. Later, I kept coughing every day, and until the beginning of January, I had a fever again, and I also took care of it for 3 days and 2 nights.
When the Chinese New Year was approaching, my mother-in-law wanted to go home for the New Year, and my husband discussed that his condition was stable, and finally brought his mother-in-law home for the New Year.
After returning home, I took care of my mother-in-law during the day, cooked for my father-in-law and husband, and took care of my mother-in-law at night.
But later, I found out that my husband was procrastinating when he asked him to help with some housework. My father-in-law didn't go to the street to do errands, and he went to have a physical examination, and he was often not at home. My mother-in-law kept calling me all the time. I don't feel very comfortable, and I'm tired all the time. It feels like they don't help with small things, just sit and look at their phones, I try not to do things, be lazy, people think you're doing things. Now I really want to go back to work, and I feel that no matter how much I give, others will think that you are not good enough. Now that I figured it out, they didn't think I was good, and I didn't like it anyway.