Did you notice? Those women who are too capable, they often have such a pattern in them.
First of all, they are like a never-ending spinning top, and they can do things in order at home and abroad. But in this way, they are destined to work hard, always busy, and their hearts can't be finished. What do you think they're trying to do? Maybe it's just to make the family's life better, but if this continues, what can they do on their own?
Secondly, women who are too capable tend to make men feel like they are an all-powerful assistant, so men will habitually let it go. In this way, men may become lazy and worry about nothing. Do you think this is a kind of "inertial dependence"?
Let's talk about it, women who are too capable sometimes make their men seem incompetent. But the more this happens, the more capable the women become, and the more the men ignore it. It's like a vicious circle, how do you break it?
Also, women who are too capable often give people the feeling of being strong women, making people feel that they only have work and career in their hearts. In this way, their husbands may feel that they don't have him in their hearts, that they are busy with other things all day. Do you think this is a communication barrier?
In addition, women who are too capable generally speak and act vigorously and resolutely, and like to grit their teeth to support themselves. Even if they are tired, they will not let themselves go. This kind of strong character is really distressing sometimes.
In the end, I would like to say that a woman who is too capable is actually a woman who wants to be strong. They don't want to rely on anyone, and they even want to be relied on by others. This strong and independent spirit deserves to be learned and respected by each of us. But at the same time, they must also learn to let go appropriately and let themselves get the rest and care they deserve. After all, life isn't just about work and career, it's also about family, friends, and yourself.