Text丨The West Chamber is affectionate.
Time is not long, may you meet in my words before it is too late!
Obviously, they are all women, why can some women be fascinating, and some women can't get even one straight look from a man even once even if they stick to themselves?
I believe that there is more than one woman who has such questions. After all, there are too many women who have suffered from love, but they have never been able to find a reason.
In fact, sometimes it is not the order of first come, first served that determines the orientation of men, nor is it simply the decision of beauty and ugliness, but depends on the woman herself.
For a man, the greatest charm of a woman is to see who can first enter his heart and bring him amazement and warmth.
So, the trick to make a man obsessed with you is "flirtatious".
For men, there can be no distinction between first and last come, but there must be a difference in feeling.
As long as you feel right about getting along, even if you meet late, it will not affect the man's obsession with you and regard you as the only one in his heart.
Yunxia met Liu Xin earlier than Hongyu, and she also had feelings for Liu Xin earlier than her. But emotional matters never come in order.
Although, Yunxia's business ability is very strong, and the friends around her think that she and Liu Xin are a match made in heaven.
However, Liu Xin didn't have much feeling for Yunxia, who had always been cautious and excellent, but paid a lot of attention to the sunny red jade.
Since the two met, Liu Xin has had a good impression of this woman who is smiling every day, and Hongyu's optimistic attitude towards everything around her makes Liu Xin especially excited.
In a man's heart, it doesn't matter whether you are strong or weak, what matters is what you can bring to his heart.
In contrast, although Yunxia is excellent in all aspects, her excellence does not fill the vacancy in Liu Xin's heart.
Although Hongyu is not so perfect, her positive and optimistic attitude towards life has successfully infected Liu Xin and made her fall in love with her.
Everyone knows that when you're looking to get someone's attention, there's no better way to get closer.
However, a man's affection is not something you can get by casually showing affection. If you don't show favor in the right way, it will only make men hate you from now on.
Perhaps it is the sense of superiority that has always made Yunxia, who has not been defeated, inevitable for Liu Xin, and she firmly believes that they are a destined pair.
Although, she also spent her time trying to please the other party in order to get more attention from Liu Xin, but every time she broke up.
Because, Yunxia misplaced herself from the beginning, so much so that Liu Xin thought that she always liked to do things that did not conform to her identity.
When a man faces this kind of woman who comes to the door, he doesn't have much happiness in his heart, but more disgust and disgust.
On the other hand, when Hongyu and Liu Xin get along, women never take the initiative to find men with things that men are interested in, but express their liking by themselves.
This kind of investment is not so purposeful, and men are more willing to accept it, so they will naturally take the initiative to come up.
Rushing to the doctor seems to have the best effect, but she is destined to become a woman that men avoid and stay away.
As bait, the drunkard does not mean to get along with you in a drunken way, and the man will take the initiative to get closer to you and be more willing to have a deep relationship with you.
Whatever the reason, men naturally like the appearance of women who are weak, as if this is the only way to show their strength and strength.
If, you always show an omnipotent and strong side in front of men, it will only make men feel stressed and hit.
To be honest, few men can endure that the aura of their own woman on the outside is more than their own, and they can't get along with a woman who has been suppressing themselves.
Yunxia really likes Liu Xin, but the vigorous and resolute strong woman habit she has developed over the years makes it difficult for her to become soft for Liu Xin.
Although every gesture of affection she made was carefully prepared, she still couldn't really become soft and boneless because of her violent temper.
Therefore, Liu Xin has always only regarded her as a good brother, never a woman, and never thought of the relationship between them as a relationship between men and women.
Ruby is different, she not only has the beauty that a woman should have, but also has a softness that men are proud of.
When getting along with Liu Xin, Hongyu never tries to be strong, but likes to give Liu Xin the opportunity to perform, so that he can show his advantages as a man.
And this way of getting along is really useful to Liu Xin, he likes to express himself in front of Hongyu, and prefers Hongyu's praise and dependence on him.
Therefore, in the end, Liu Xin's choice was as expected to be Hongyu, and he had always maintained a polite friend relationship with Yunxia.
It can be seen that the conquest of men must be strong and weak, and at the same time fill the vacancies of men without hitting the pride of men.
If you want a man to be obsessed with you, you can't always know him from your point of view, and those actions that you think he will like, in fact, men don't take it to heart.
As the saying goes, knowing oneself and knowing one's opponent wins all battles. Only by understanding a man's thoughts and obeying a man's liking can you really live in a man's heart and make him obsessed with you.