Hello everyone, I'm a hard-working Miss Liu.
Have we all experienced the days of loss, sadness, and no one cares, and we have carried it by ourselves little by little.
I also wanted to find someone to rely on or someone to confide in, and to express all the grievances in my heart.
When I feel comfortable, I feel more comfortable speaking my heart, but I never think that what I say is my own weakness and the handle of others.
Later, when you wake up, no matter how sad you are, don't make a noise, you can secretly wipe your tears, but you can't tell others how sad you are.
As the writer Haruki Murakami said: "To be a quiet adult, you are not allowed to be emotional, you are not allowed to secretly miss, and you are not allowed to look back."
Let yourself be mentally independent and don't rely on anyone.
Other people's umbrellas are gorgeous, but they are not as good as their own broken umbrellas.
Girls should be so strong that they are afraid to keep themselves from getting wet.
A powerful girl will hold the steering wheel tightly in her hand, and the decision is up to her, and she wants to ** have the final say.
Giving yourself enough confidence is a unique advantage of girls.
1. Guarantee of life.
Money is a person's confidence and dignity.
Money is not everything, but no money is everything.
Work hard, work hard to make money, and life is inseparable from money.
When we have money, we will no longer whisper our voices to beg people and look at other people's faces.
Learn about financial management and plan your money wisely.
With money, you can verify a person's character, and you can see some real and fake friends.
2. Enhance capacity.
Ability at work is your hard power at work.
Fast-paced development, constantly improve the ability, so that you can keep up with the pace of the times.
It changes every year, and a lot of machinery replaces human work.
We must realize that only by planning for ourselves in advance, working hard to improve our abilities, and having outstanding skills, can you not be eliminated by society.
3. Have an optimistic attitude.
Tsang Hin-chi: "Always expand yourself and the world outside yourself with a positive and optimistic attitude. ”
With an optimistic mindset, things will go well.
If you don't have a good mentality, your good luck will deviate from you.
Optimism does not mean that we should be stupid and sweet, but that we should deal with things with an optimistic attitude.
Some people use a pessimistic attitude about the same thing, and all they see is dark clouds.
In the eyes of an optimistic person, all they see is opportunity.
We have to have a positive and optimistic attitude, and our eyes are full of light.
4. Have a stable mood.
Especially middle-aged people like me are under a lot of pressure, carrying a heavy burden on their bodies, and occasionally feeling depressed in their hearts.
Be sure to keep yourself emotionally stable and walk smoothly on the road of life.
Don't lose your temper at that point, it will only expose our weaknesses and make it easy for others to see through.
Stable emotions can be adjusted, whenever we want to get angry, let ourselves calm down for 5 minutes first.
Analyze why you are angry, what the consequences will be, and so on.
This calmness gives yourself room to maneuver, especially when you say hurtful words, you feel okay, and it may be a shadow for someone else's life.
Therefore, keeping your mouth and emotions is an important part of life.
5. Have a regular life.
Let's not care too much about how others are doing better than ourselves, just keep our own pace.
Don't let your rhythm go off the rails, let's learn as we go.
Don't be in a hurry, set sail and sail forward.
Maybe you will encounter wind and waves, as long as you face it bravely, you will live your life well.
I like this quote very much: "One of the happiest things in the world is that after a lot of hard work, everything is slowly becoming what you want it to be, and you will stand in the brightest place and live the way you once longed to be." ”
What can give you confidence is the guarantee of life, the ability to improve, the optimistic attitude, the stable mood, and the regular life.
Finally: train yourself to be strong, don't be influenced by the outside world, have indestructible perseverance in your heart, and become the invincible self.
The code word is not easy, I hope it can help everyone, and I like to have a little love. What views and opinions we discuss with each other.