The boyfriend went home for the New Year, and the girlfriend experienced it for the first time, but was treated coldly and was dissatisfied. The boyfriend explained: "My parents are busy on weekdays and have no time to tidy up. The girlfriend was angry and wanted to leave, but the boyfriend kept it.
The woman was repeatedly invited by her boyfriend and finally agreed to go to her boyfriend's house for the New Year, and her boyfriend's parents were also very happy when they learned about it.
The woman was full of expectations, but she didn't expect that as soon as she entered the house, the scene in front of her made her feel heavy and even a little angry.
The floor of my boyfriend's house is full of bundles of green onions, which look disorganized, and there is no clean place at a glance.
What made the woman even more angry was that her boyfriend had communicated with her parents in advance, saying that she would take her girlfriend home for the New Year, but the home was still so messy.
Women feel despised and devalued even the most basic respects.
She was so dissatisfied that she wanted to leave immediately. But when her boyfriend found out, he persuaded her not to leave.
The boyfriend said: "My relatives at home know that I brought my girlfriend back for the New Year, and if you leave, I will be very embarrassed." It's not that your parents don't care about you, it's just that they're usually too busy to clean up! ”
The woman was conflicted, although her boyfriend was usually very good to her, but at this time she didn't know whether to leave or stay to help clean up the house.
This incident sparked heated discussions among netizens. Someone expressed understanding: "Family conditions do not mean the attitude towards guests, and busyness should not be a reason. ”
Another asked: "How would the woman feel if there were not green onions but gold bars on the ground?" Respect and cleanliness should be the basic bottom line. ”
Some netizens believed: "It is very important to be a good match, and both parties should understand each other and bear it together." ”
Although the boyfriend's parents are in business, hard work is visible. Marriage needs more about mutual understanding and support.
If we can't get through the difficulties together, then the road ahead will be even more bumpy.