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When I returned home for the Chinese New Year, I returned to my hometown after a long absence. However, the moment I opened the door, my heart instantly became heavy. When I saw my child, he didn't call "Daddy" cheerfully as usual, but looked at me with a strange look.
An inexplicable sense of loss welled up in my heart, and I began to reflect on myself, did I miss too much time with my children in the past time? Is it that I don't care and pay enough attention to my family?
I began to take the initiative to communicate with my child, trying to understand his inner world. I found that my child was not familiar with me because he was growing up and encountered many problems, and I was not around. He needed his father's love and support, but I didn't give him enough attention and companionship due to work and other reasons.
I am deeply aware that as a father, I have an inescapable responsibility. I need to pay more attention to my child's growth and give him more love and support. At the same time, I also need to pay more attention to my family and give them more companionship and warmth.
At this particular moment, I decided to make a change. I started spending more time with my child, playing with him, reading books, watching movies. I started to pay more attention to his growth and learning, helping him solve the problems he encountered. I began to pay more attention to my family and give them more care and warmth.
Gradually, I noticed that the children began to get to know me again and our relationship became closer. He started calling me "Daddy" as he had done before, and he started confiding in me about his thoughts and troubles. I also began to understand his inner world more deeply and try my best to meet his needs and expectations.
In the process, I also re-examined my life values. I realized that family is the most important asset, and there is no substitute for children's growth and education. I decided to pay more attention to the needs of my family and children in the future, and create a warm and harmonious family environment for them.
Through this experience, I deeply realized that as parents, we need to always pay attention to the growth and education of our children, and give them enough love and support. At the same time, we also need to pay attention to the happiness and harmony of the family, so that the home becomes a warm harbor for everyone. Only in this way can we truly make our children feel the warmth and happiness of the family.