Whether a person really loves you or not can be seen from his words and deeds. Some men seem to love you on the surface, but they don't have you in their hearts, so in life, you must understand such a thing, even if he is good to you now, he can't love you. When a man often treats you in these three ways, it means that he has never loved you, don't be stupid and don't know! 
The man who loves you, he will think of you all the timeIf a man really loves you, he will think about you all the time, instead of saying that he will call you and send you a message when he has time. When a man really loves you, he will think about you all the time. No matter what you do together, or when you're a**, he's going to think about you. When you are together, he always thinks about how to make the relationship between you sweeter and make your relationship closer. 
And a man who has never loved you rarely takes the initiative to talk to you when he is with you. Even if you have a good chat with each other, he won't take the initiative to talk to you. Because he doesn't take you seriously at all. Therefore, women must understand such a thing, love is always thinking about the other person, if he does not love you, don't bother him. 
A man who doesn't love you doesn't have a little patience for youA man who loves you will be patient, he will be willing to accomplish something with you, as long as it is something he is interested in, he will take it seriously. For example, if you go to play a game, he will play with you; When you read, he will read with you; When you have a hard time, he will also work with you to solve it. But men who don't love you don't have a little patience for you, because they don't care about you, so in their eyes, they never take you seriously. Even if you are boyfriend and girlfriend, you will always be an outsider in their eyes. They even say something like this to you: "We're like colleagues, not boyfriend and girlfriend." "When a man is impatient with a woman, it means that he does not have this woman in his heart. That's why I talk to women like this. Because he doesn't have this woman in his heart at all, he doesn't want to have too much contact with her. A man who doesn't love you speaks coldly to you"To love someone is to want to be good to him from the heart, and to catch him from time. AnonymousSome men say they love you, but they act very indifferently, no matter what you say, they are perfunctory to you, and they don't take you to heart at all. Because he doesn't love you, his attitude towards you is cold. Therefore, when a man is always cold to you, you have to understand that he has neglected you and has not taken you to heart in life or emotionally. True love comes from the heart, and he will put his heart on you, not just words. So, when a man is indifferent to you, don't be stupid and don't know. He doesn't have you in his heart at all. Don't go on like this, you're only going to get hurt. 
A man who loves you will give his heart to youIn our lives, we often hear men say something like, "I'll give my heart to you." Actually, the meaning of this sentence is very simple, that is, a man thinks that as long as he has you, he has the whole world. 
But this is just wishful thinking on the part of men, and few men will give their hearts to a woman who does not love them. If He truly loves you, He will give his heart to you. So, in life, you must understand such a thing. If a man says this to you a lot, then he certainly hasn't loved you. If a man doesn't love you, he will say that to you too. Many times, men will use words to express their feelings, but their actions and attitudes may not match them.
When a man claims to love you on his lips, but his actions make you feel unvalued or cared for, it can leave you confused and disappointed.
If a person just says they love you, but doesn't take action to support you, care for you, or connect with you more deeply, then this may just be empty rhetoric and lack a real emotional foundation.
Faced with this situation, you can try to have an honest conversation with him to express your feelings and confusion.
Ask him why he just pays lip service to you and is not willing to put in more effort to build an authentic relationship with you.
At the same time, be alert not to be fooled by his words, but to focus on his actions and attitudes.