During the Spring Festival, we can see how a marriage relationship should be managed from three aspects. The first is to entertain guests, which is also a view of married life. During the Spring Festival, each family has to entertain relatives and friends, prepare food and activities. In this process, the division of labor and collaboration between the couple will reflect how much they work together in their day-to-day work. In some homes, husbands and wives cook together, and the division of labor is clear and enviable. However, in some people, one party is idle all day long, while pointing fingers and criticizing the other party's cooking skills. Such an attitude is not only infuriating, but also difficult to maintain harmony between husband and wife. "Arbor" is about a new housewife who has to serve relatives and friends during the Spring Festival, and her husband complains that he has no time to rest all year round. These lack of consideration and support not only put a burden on her physically, but also traumatized her psyche. Therefore, a good marriage should be cultivated from getting along with each other in ordinary times, men cannot be too strong, and women cannot sit idly by. Only when couples work together to get the family affairs done well can they share delicious meals and create a warm atmosphere. So, the way of entertaining guests is also a way of managing marriage.
Secondly, send a red envelope, which is also a proof of the quality of marriage. Many couples marry in luxury, with dozens of tables and tens of thousands of dollars in money. However, when it comes to using money, many couples are still shy in their pockets, and in order to give their red envelopes, they can only borrow some money first. Such a situation not only makes it difficult to control one's emotions, but is also likely to lead to disputes and dissatisfaction. If the family has no money and can't send satisfactory red envelopes, it means that the family has no money, and it will be embarrassing in society. And good couples usually send a red envelope to their future in advance and arrange all expenses in advance. Attentive couples will also send red envelopes to each other during the Spring Festival, as if they were in love. Red envelopes not only symbolize money, but also truly reflect the financial situation of the couple. The only way to save some on weekdays is to make each other feel cared for and respected.
Then, it is to return to one's parents, which is also part of filial piety to one's parents. Going home is the biggest event for many couples during the Chinese New Year. Some couples do not return home all year round, and some do not have any contact with their parents. After the woman got married, she couldn't go home during the Spring Festival because of her husband's family. However, no matter how difficult it is, we must understand each other and support each other. Some couples quarrel over the return to their families, while others no longer care about their families. Such a view may have a negative impact on your marriage. A good couple must take good care of their parents. Even if it is far away, you should visit and care as much as possible. Especially in the case of an only child, the filial piety of the children and the aunt is particularly important. A good couple would love to go back to their parents' house to spend happy time together, they consider their parents their home, so going back to their parents' house is also a blessing.
Chinese New Year is a series of activities, and if your partner has a poor relationship and no long-term planning, the New Year can be lonely. A person who can't have a good New Year will always make this holiday seem extra lonely and sad. So, to maintain a long and beautiful relationship, you must first learn how to manage your marriage. In daily life, you need to know how to save and how to manage your finances well for the future. In family life, we should respect each other, love each other's feelings, care for our parents, and develop the habit of filial piety together. Only by treating guests, giving red envelopes, and returning home can the couple have a harmonious relationship and spend a happy Spring Festival together.