In the 80s of the 20th century, the night before returning to the city, the Dai girlfriend unbuttoned his shirt tremblingly and told him: "Tonight, let's draw a happy end to our past!" This decision made Zhiqing's heart ache, but for the sake of his girlfriend's future, he silently accepted it.
40 years later, when the educated youth revisited his hometown and saw a Dai girl, he suddenly realized that the choice he made back then was wrong. The sacrifice of his Dai girlfriend did not bring him happiness, but made him bear a lifetime of regrets.
He realizes that the choices in life are so important that if they are missed, they may never be able to make up for it. In that special era, the fate of the educated youth was affected by the tide of the times, and their love and life became tortuous and bizarre.
Sun Zhaohui's story is a typical love story of educated youth, full of regret and helplessness. In that special era, many educated youths met their love in distant rural areas, but for various reasons, they could not be with their beloved.
The story of Sun Zhaohui and Yufen is one such example. They fell in love, but because Sun Zhaohui was from the city and he had his own life plans and pursuits, he couldn't give Yufen a promise and a future. In the end, he chose to return to the city, while Yufen silently endured the pain and raised their children alone.
Forty years later, Sun Zhaohui returned to Yunnan to try to find Yufen and make up for his past regrets. However, by the time he finds Yufen, she has already died. He could only face his own heart, feeling deep guilt and self-blame.
This story teaches us that every choice in life leads to different outcomes, and some choices may leave us to regret for the rest of our lives. Therefore, we should cherish the people and things in front of us, and not give up our love and dreams easily. At the same time, we should also respect other people's choices and lifestyles, and not use our own standards to measure the value of others.
Finally, Sun Zhaohui's story also reminds us that there are no ifs in life, only results and consequences. We should take responsibility for our choices and face life's challenges and difficulties bravely. Even if there are things that can't be changed, we can learn from them and become better versions of ourselves.
In addition, Sun Zhaohui's story also reflects some practical problems in society at that time. In those days, educated youths often faced huge life pressures and choice dilemmas.
They want to return to the city to pursue a better life, but they are reluctant to build a family and love in the countryside. This kind of contradiction and entanglement is vividly reflected in Sun Zhaohui.
At the same time, the story also shows the complexity and multifaceted nature of human nature. Although Sun Zhaohui made an unacceptable choice, we can't simply classify him as a "negative man".
He also has his own life and family in the city, and he faces his own pressures and challenges. Yufen, on the other hand, is a typical image of a rural woman, who is hardworking and kind, endures humiliation, and can give everything for her children.
The story also teaches us that time can change everything, but it can also leave lasting memories.
Although Sun Zhaohui and Yufen's love is short-lived, their memories can travel through time and space and become eternal existences. Their stories also make us think about how to face our past and future, and how to cherish the happiness and love in front of us.
Finally, this story also reminds us to pay attention to those who have been forgotten by history. In that special era, there were many people who silently endured the hardships and misfortunes of life like Yufen.
We should pay attention to their living conditions and spiritual needs, and give them more love and support. At the same time, we should also bear in mind the lessons of history to avoid similar tragedies from happening again. Love, marriage, emotion