Marriage is not only a traditional custom, but also a process of marriage etiquette.
In ancient etiquette, the man would first lift the sedan chair to the courtyard dam and park it when receiving relatives, and then Mr. Charge Li would find the woman's parents and say a few polite words, and finally a young, beautiful, son-in-law, and well-spoken aunt or sister, sister and other relatives or villagers selected by the man's owner held the saffron and went to lift the curtain of the sedan chair and wait for the bride to get on the sedan chair.
An etiquette expert pointed out that the procedures for receiving relatives are discussed by the parents of both men and women, and generally speaking, as long as the agreed procedures are followed, there will be no extraneous complications.
However, the etiquette expert went on to point out that there is a fear that one party will not follow the agreed procedures, and if one party changes the procedures without authorization, it may be difficult to carry out the reception.
In fact, the statement of this etiquette expert is still very reasonable. No, on January 23, Song, a man in Henan, changed the procedure without authorization when he received his relatives, which caused him to be scolded by his father-in-law!
So, what's going on here?
Next, let's talk about it.
According to netizen Jing, January 23 was the wedding day of Song, a man in Henan, and early in the morning, Song went to his father-in-law Liu's house with a group of people and gifts. But what Song didn't expect was that Song not only did not accept the marriage, but was also scolded by his father-in-law Liu! A paragraph ** circulated on the Internet shows: Liu directly scolded his son-in-law Song for "getting out"!
So, why was Song angrily scolded by his father-in-law Liu?
Netizen Jing said that according to local customs, on the day of the groom's kissing, he should bring a pickup truck gift, and the value of this pickup truck gift is at least more than 10,000 yuan. If the groom does not bring enough pickup trucks for gifts on the day of the wedding, it will be difficult for the woman to carry out the wedding.
Netizen Jing went on to say that why did the groom not bring enough pickup truck gifts on the day of the kiss, and it would be difficult for the woman's wedding to be carried out? In fact, the gifts brought by the groom will not belong to the woman, because the woman has relatives such as "seven concubines and eight aunts", and these relatives will give the woman a "heavy gift", so the woman should give these relatives a "return gift", and the woman's "return gift" comes from the gift brought by the groom.
Netizen Jing continued to say that after understanding, he learned that Liu is not a greedy person, although the local bride price is very "heavy", Liu only asked Song for a bride price of 20,000 yuan. However, when Song received the kiss, the pickup truck gift that was originally discussed by the two parties was discounted by Sun, and Song only brought a small half of the pickup truck gift when he received the kiss, and besides, it was basically worthless instant noodles. Song said to his father-in-law, Liu: "The rest of the gifts will be sent after the marriage." ”
Netizen Jing finally said that Liu was immediately annoyed when he heard his son-in-law Song say this. So, not only did he refuse Song to take his kiss, but he also scolded his son-in-law Song!
According to another insider, under the persuasion of many relatives and friends, Liu finally asked his son-in-law Song to take his daughter away.
The above is a general process of this event.
When many netizens learned about this incident, netizens started a heated discussion.
How can netizens be embarrassed: I think my father-in-law scolded right! Father-in-law Liu only asked Song for a bride price of 20,000 yuan, but Song was not satisfied, and he didn't even want to take a pickup truck gift, which was too picky.
Netizen years are like songs: Such a son-in-law really deserves to be scolded! Use a half-pickup truck of worthless gifts to fool your father-in-law, who will your father-in-law scold if he doesn't scold you?
In short, netizens have a lot to talk about.