A student has a good impression of the teacher, but forcibly violates it by illegal means, resulting in an ethical tragedy. Teachers are a great profession that undertakes the heavy responsibility of educating and guiding students, not only to help students answer their doubts academically, but also to care about their lives, help them eliminate their psychological burden, and regain confidence in life.
However, teachers and students belong to different social groups and should maintain an appropriate distance to avoid unnecessary disputes. Xiao Wei's example is the best warning.
Xiao Wei has dreamed of being a teacher since he was a child, so he chose to major in education after the college entrance examination. After graduating with a bachelor's degree, she persevered in studying for a master's degree and a doctorate, and with her rich academic achievements and personal excellence, she successfully passed the interview of a university, stepped onto the three-foot podium, and began her teaching and educating journey.
In addition to imparting knowledge to students, Ms. Xiao Wei is also very concerned about the personal life of students, and often takes the initiative to solve psychological and emotional problems for students.
Once, she was keenly aware of the loneliness of her student Leizi, who rarely socialized with his classmates and was always alone, seemingly preoccupied.
Reiko, a child from a single family, has become introverted and sensitive and unsociable because of the ridicule around her. However, all this changed with Xiao Wei's help.
Xiao Wei encouraged Lei Zi to face it bravely, get in touch with his classmates, enjoy the colorful university life, step out of the shadow of the past, and welcome a better future. Lei Zi followed Xiao Wei's advice and began to take the initiative to answer questions in class, and also communicated and played with his classmates during class.
He gradually stepped out of the closed world and welcomed a better tomorrow. At the end of the semester, the other students all went home to enjoy the holidays, but Reiko stayed in the dormitory because he didn't have enough money to buy a ticket home.
When Xiao Wei learned about it, he immediately transferred him a sum of money and asked him to go home as soon as possible so that his family would not worry. Lei Zi was so moved that he almost shed tears, he looked at Xiao Wei's departing back, his heart was full of warmth and a trace of affection.
He was deeply in love with Xiao Wei, and felt that she was an angel sent by God to save him, and he hoped to be with her forever.
At the beginning of the new semester, Lei Zi came to school early and returned the money to Xiao Wei, who took the opportunity to invite him to his home for a light meal. At the dinner table, Xiao Wei's mother noticed that Lei Zi's feelings for Xiao Wei were gradually heating up, and she decided to remind Xiao Wei after Lei Zi left to keep a proper distance from Lei Zi, because the teacher-student relationship should not go beyond normal boundaries, otherwise it may cause unnecessary trouble.
However, Xiao Wei thought that she was just doing her duty as a teacher and caring for her students, and felt that her mother was a little too worried. Nevertheless, it turned out that his mother's worries were not superfluous, and it wasn't long before Leizi expressed his feelings to Xiao Wei.
Xiao Wei was very surprised, and after careful consideration, she politely rejected Lei Zi, saying that she already had a boyfriend, and persuaded Lei Zi to focus more on studying, and when she had a better job and economic conditions in the future, she could meet a better girl.
Lei Zi's behavior made Xiao Wei deeply uneasy, and in order to protect herself, she privately assigned a key to Lei Zi's dormitory. Late one night, Lei Zi tried to forcibly violate Xiao Wei, and after she woke up, she decisively picked up a fruit knife to defend herself.
In the process of fighting, Lei Zi was accidentally stabbed by a knife and unfortunately passed away. Xiao Wei then called for emergency services, but it was too late. After an investigation, Xiao Wei's self-defense behavior was found to be justified defense, so she was not punished by any law.
Xiao Wei originally intended to help Lei Zi, but she did not expect that the result would be so serious, which could have a serious impact on her teaching career. If she leaves the front-line teaching position because of this incident, then my country's education industry will undoubtedly lose an excellent talent.
The incident between Xiao Wei and Lei Zi reflects the current widespread problem of teacher-student relationship, even if they get along every day, teachers still need to keep an appropriate distance from students of the opposite sex. If the student's mood fluctuates, the school psychological counseling room should provide assistance, which can achieve better results and effectively avoid similar problems.