Text丨The West Chamber is affectionate.
Time is not long, may you meet in my words before it is too late!
A woman of every age has her own charm.
But in reality, many people have a stereotype that women are the most charming in the decade between 18 and 28 years old, after all, this is the most expensive decade of youth.
But in fact, the years have only taken away the appearance on the surface, and many women have become more charming after the baptism of the years, and the charm on her body is enough to make men addicted.
In the final analysis, it is because this kind of woman does not follow the crowd, does not consume herself in the passage of time, and does not easily consume herself for the sake of men.
So remember, after the age of 40, the more women know how to toss, the more fascinated they are for men.
One: Know how to toss your own life and attract men
Most women fall into the misconception that the most important thing to attract a man is their appearance and figure, but this is not the case.
If you want to fascinate a man for a long time, the most important thing is to make the man yearn for your life.
Ms. Qiao is 42 years old this year, she and her husband have been married for seven years, but the relationship between the two is still very good, and her husband spoils Ms. Qiao as a child every day.
Ms. Qiao said: "My husband and I have been together for so many years, I will never let myself revolve around him, and the focus of my life can only be myself.
Many women around me get married and are family-centered and completely forget about their interests and hobbies, but what is the result?
Their husbands are often away from home, and they themselves have become resentful women, complaining all day long. ”
Even though Ms. Qiao is married, she never relaxes, as long as it is a weekend, she buys some flowers to decorate her small home, or goes out to do a beauty salon and buy a few new clothes.
In her opinion, a woman's time should be used to enrich herself, and it is precisely because she understands life that her husband will love her more and more, and he will be fascinated by her every day.
2. Know how to create freshness and excitement for men in the relationship between men and women
Young girls will be shy in the process of love, especially when it comes to men and women, and they will not let go.
Maybe at first, a man will take this as a pleasure, but after a long time, he will find it boring and boring.
But middle-aged women are different, after years of polishing, she will gradually become bold and more open in her relationship.
So after the age of 40, if you want a man to be more addicted to you, you have to learn to give him stimulation.
Mrs. Lin said: "Husband and wife have been together for a long time, two people have to find a way to manage their emotions, they can't get by, my husband and I have been married for so many years, I will still prepare surprises for him."
For example, when I go shopping, I will buy some beautiful clothes to show him.
Or take the initiative to take him to revisit the places we walked when we were young, and every time this moment, my husband will be very touched and treat me better. ”
Many women are afraid of trouble after marriage and are not willing to spend time creating romance for both parties.
It is because of your lax thinking that your married life is becoming more and more unsatisfactory, and you frequently fall into coldness and quarrels.
After a woman is 40 years old, life has slowly returned to flat, if you don't want your love to cool down gradually, then spend more time to create surprises.
Especially when it comes to married life, you can be bold and make the man want to stop and be obsessed with you.
Three: know how to tame a man in getting along and make demands on him
A successful woman is always the same in love, and she is able to make the other person completely surrender to her.
You must know that after 40, it is easy for a woman to form two extremes in a relationship.
The first is that love is soft on men, causing men to become more and more aggressive, and frequently ignore the feelings and needs of their wives; The second is that men are conquered by you and are obedient to you from then on.
And it is not difficult to achieve the second type, as long as you dare to toss, a smart woman will not be blindly dominated by a man when she gets along, she can clarify her bottom line as soon as possible.
Especially when a man offends her, she will not secretly be wronged, but will make the man realize his mistake.
For example, when a man is always particularly careless regardless of a woman's feelings, a wise woman will repeatedly mention her habits in front of him every day until he remembers it.
Some women think, why should I waste my time nagging? What if he annoys me?
But in fact, love is inseparable from nagging, the more you can toss a man, the deeper his feelings for you will be.
Closing Remarks:
In relationships, age is not the most important thing, because slowly you will find that attractive women are attractive enough no matter what stage of life they are.
If you want to be such a woman after the age of 40, you might as well try to toss your man like this, so that he can become more respectful of you in getting along with you, and also make yourself more attractive.
A good love relationship is not about being cheated by a pit, but when you are attractive enough, the other party voluntarily walks into your net and is at your mercy.