Because of the birth of a second child and a third child, many housewives were born! Can't go to work, and there's no one to share it with! Only watch the children at home! When she is faced with endless housework and angry children every day, all her energy and thoughts can only fall on the children and her husband, at this time, her vision is narrow, all her emotions are accumulating, but there is nowhere to vent, and she has entered a vicious circle.
There is a mother who said that she is often anxious, often confused, and every day except for her children and children. I know that getting angry and losing my temper every day is not good for my child's future growth and is psychologically unhealthy when I grow up. But what can be done? Fortunately, I'm about to be liberated, my second child will be three years old soon, and I can go to kindergarten, so I will go to work. His grandfather promised to come and take the child.
Don't think like this, a good mother is a child's lifelong companionship. Even if your child is in school, don't stop you, you have to become better! Now that you are aware, observe your emotions and don't let the bad emotions control you!
Bao Ma said - but I have asked many mothers, it is like this, it is difficult to control their emotions, unless someone shares it!
At any time, you can choose to be your own master. At all times, you can choose to get angry and get angry, or you can choose not to get angry and not get angry. It's your own right. You asked a lot of mothers around you, and they are all like this, this is your vision, this is your limitation. I ask you, is there a mother who is not angry? There must be. The book says that if you feel that you are struggling to educate your children, then you must be doing it in the wrong way!
I was very impetuous in the first few years, but I have changed a lot in the past two years. My experience is that I read less. A lot of troubles come from reading too little and thinking too much. It would be nice to read more books. I've been experimenting, exploring, and changing. I'll sort out a few good books and recommend them to you. A recommendation is like a beacon. I hope that a bright light can be lit in life to illuminate myself, others, and life.
As the mistress of the family, the pillar of the family, the mother of the child, you have to live a few more years, don't be young and always angry. Your best days are yet to come. Do you want to watch your children, marry your daughter-in-law, and hold your grandchildren? Give yourself a way out and learn to control your emotions. People, once they have pressure, they must learn to release, not suppress. If it is not released, it is easy to accumulate in the body. Anger brings too much negative damage to the body.
When your bad mood rises, you have to tell yourself, Sample, you want to control me again, no way! Take a deep breath, you need someone to talk to, to speak, or, to write a journal, to try to detach yourself, to observe yourself.