The highest hunters tend to come in the form of prey.
Pretending to be a pig and eating a tiger is actually wise and foolish, knowing how to pretend to be stupid, calm down, endure humiliation, and suffer losses. They seem to be getting along very well, but they can see the situation better than anyone else, and they also know what they want. is willing to lie dormant in secret, and he is a dark horse when he appears.
Pretending to be a pig and eating a tiger, first of all, your core needs to be a tiger. 
1. Know how to show weakness, make you comfortable on your tongue, and take me as the subject everywhere in terms of interests.
Our company had a customer before, who was a female leader in the industry, who was beautiful, straightforward and decisive, and had very good popularity in the circle. But the most commendable thing is her style of doing things, whether it is to friends, peers or customers, she can lower her position.
Once I heard her call ** to a peer friend, she said: "Mr. Wang, if you need anything, just call me, although I am not as professional as you, but I can be a driver for you and run errands." "To retreat as advance, fight but not fight.
Sometimes verbal concessions can win more support and benefits. Many people think that they are invulnerable, and they look like "the boss of God, my second child", and they are most likely to become cannon fodder on the real battlefield without gunpowder. 
2. Don't pay for vanity
People's happiness and self-confidence are gained from "comparison" and are also lost in "comparison". Everyone has some vanity to a greater or lesser extent, and from time to time wants to show off their knowledge, intelligence, achievements, figure, appearance, and wealth. I also want others to affirm, support, praise, and envy you.
It is difficult for people to avoid vanity, the more a person wants to get rid of vanity, the more he will fall into the whirlpool of vanity, you will feel that everything you have is what you deserve, you will run all the way on the road of arrogance, especially when you are accidentally hit by fate and dragged into the spotlight, it is easy to fall into vanity and cannot extricate yourself. Vanity, in essence, is the exposure of low self-esteem, and it is necessary to protect oneself by being superior to others in one aspect.
Never change yourself for the sake of other people's opinions or evaluations, because it doesn't matter what you do, there are always people who like you and people who don't like you, and a person's true self-confidence and happiness come from inner peace. 
3. Super execution
All powerful people have one thing in common: after determining the goal, do not hesitate or wait, the execution is amazing, the effect is not good, the review and optimization, the effect is good, the pursuit of victory, and continue to cultivate. I have a friend who practices yoga and knows her, and her execution is very strong in my opinion.
After the epidemic, the short ** industry is hot, and we joked, why don't we also be flying pigs? When I was done, I forgot. Probably less than 1 year, when I brushed a certain sound again, I suddenly saw a blogger who was very familiar, and I was shocked: Isn't this my friend? Yes, it's her, already an authentic "blogger" with 400,000 followers, although I don't know how much she paid for it.
I'm still the same person, I'm still on a meager salary, and she's not the same person she used to be. 
Many things, persistently persistent, and it will become; A lot of difficulties, grinding and grinding, are gone.
In psychology, there is a famous "2-minute rule", which refers to the fact that if you want to do something, you must act within 2 minutes, otherwise, it will be delayed for a long time, or even not done. It's better to start recklessly and finish poorly than to be perfectionist and slow to act.
First finished, then perfected.